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Old 09-22-2016, 08:01 PM
 
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I'm very small - 5'1" - and my voice is somewhat high-pitched...not squeaky, but people sometimes think I sound like a child say, on the phone. Actually, I just had this experience yesterday, twice, on the phone.

"I AM my mother." LOL. Okay, no, I don't actually say that.

So maybe size does have something to do with it after all, who knows.

I don't know about innocent-looking and I have giant hooters. Maybe people have different definitions of either of these designations, if and when they use them.
I think the difference is "hot" is sexier. A guy may instantly think of sex when referring to someone as hot.
Let's see how many more profile visits you get after proclaiming "giant hooters".
(I like your new profile pic, btw )
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Old 09-22-2016, 08:54 PM
 
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I'm reminded of this exchange from the mid-90s sitcom NewsRadio.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7iU2HFUXaU
That was a good show.

Maura Tierney was excellent; and aesthetically pleasing.
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Old 09-22-2016, 09:30 PM
 
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I'm very small - 5'1" - and my voice is somewhat high-pitched...not squeaky, but people sometimes think I sound like a child say, on the phone. Actually, I just had this experience yesterday, twice, on the phone.

"I AM my mother." LOL. Okay, no, I don't actually say that.

So maybe size does have something to do with it after all, who knows.

I don't know about innocent-looking and I have giant hooters. Maybe people have different definitions of either of these designations, if and when they use them.
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*snort* at giant hooters. I don't have those unless they're filled with milk. Lol I wouldn't have guessed you're 5'1"!
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Same here: 4'10, a decent rack but otherwise lacking in curves, soft voice (except when I really really trying to sound authoritative), wholesome-looking face. Like an overgrown Girl Scout. Who drinks and swears.
ok girls you can stop now, you have me going and planning trips around the country

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I'm getting that same vibe from a lot of these types of posts.

A woman is an individual just like everyone else. We are not beings from another planet...jeez.....
true, most women are angels sent by god to man to watch over us, and scold us like the little children that we are.
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Old 09-23-2016, 04:15 AM
 
Location: Somewhere below Mason/Dixon
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Hot: pretty in a sexy, sophisticated way

Cute: pretty in a sweet, girl-next-door way
This. I'd choose cute any day over hot for anything long term.
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Old 09-23-2016, 09:04 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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Guys, in your opinion what do you think makes a difference between whether you would consider a woman "hot' or as I have usually been called, "cute"? I am certainly not saying I am some kind of beauty, but I have been told that I am really cute by others, including my husband. He has always been affectionate and loving and is a great man. Not sure if it matters but he has said that what many would consider traditionally "hot" women aren't attractive. A few examples being Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Kim Kardashian etc.

Just curious what the difference is for men here.
I can't consider a woman hot if I don't also consider her cute and vice versa
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Old 09-23-2016, 10:25 AM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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I always considered Meg Ryan cute and Megan Fox hot. Both are attractive but there is a difference.
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Old 09-23-2016, 10:47 AM
 
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I can't consider a woman hot if I don't also consider her cute and vice versa
I realize you're speaking of your own taste, but in my opinion, it's possible.


Sophia Loren, for instance, in her youth was "hot" but never "cute."
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Old 09-23-2016, 09:55 PM
 
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Hot: how men refer to women when around friends


Cute: how men refer to women when around their mom
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Old 09-24-2016, 03:19 AM
 
Location: Jacksonville
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I kind of think of Zooey Deschanel as cute, not really hot though.

She has this adorable cuteness about her, but I wouldn't really use the term sexy or hot describe her.

I remember when I was a child, I thought that Shelley Duvall was cute, but that Madonna, Paula Abdul and Michelle Pfeiffer were HOT!
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Old 09-25-2016, 08:43 PM
 
Location: Western Canada
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I am tall and curvy so I've rarely been called cute but I find each term flattering. I think each term suggests different desires with hot being much more sexual.
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