Is someone being "out of your league" a real thing? (girls, husband)
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Here's a simple truth. When you truly love someone they are beautiful to you. Their physical looks cease to matter because you love the whole person, not just the outer shell and if they love you as well they will see you the same way.
She had a laugh at my expense. Big difference. Age is irrevalant.
No, it's all how you look at it! Haven't you ever made a little joke to try and make someone laugh when they're being self-deprecating? That's how I read it. That along with her user name, telling you what time it is bc you said women won't give you the time of day...it's kind of like flirting. Lighten up
I think to "A BIT" of an extent, yes. For example, I'm an average looking guy, and my chances of getting with someone like Scarlett Johansson (recently got divorced as well :P) are pretty much nil, lol.
That might be an extreme example, but something like that is where leagues definitely exist.
What do you mean by someone "like" Scarlett Johansson?
A celebrity?
Yes, it's unlikely. There are, relatively,few of them. Plus access; you're unlikely to meet.
This is not funny. You know that was a figure of speech. This isn't a laughing matter.
Certainly not. Not being privy to the time of day can wreak havoc on an individual. You might try asking men for the time of day or investing in a good watch.
I'm not the greatest looking guy (I have a thread about my physical flaw) but I'm also interested in dating women. I speak with my female cousins, and they told me that it's because I'm "way outta my league". I shouldn't be getting at 10s when I myself am a 3. I wanted to know, do you guys feel the same way? I mean, I'm already a business owner and building wealth at age 18 and when I do become successful (bringing positive energy to myself lol) I'll have my pick of the litter when it comes to women, but at the same time do I want a woman that doesn't love me for me? How do you guys feel about it?
Yes, some of these hot, young supermodel types wouldn't want anything to do with me without a couple hundred dollars to spend for a half hour of their time.
I don't want anything to do with a number of women also. It works both ways.
If you don't want someone to use you for your money, don't lead with your wallet.
I get tired of hearing some of these guys denigrating themselves for being a 3 or whatever. If people put the effort into it, they can clean up nicely. Helena Rubenstein once said that there are no ugly women, only lazy ones. I think that the same is true for men. Develop your own sense of personal style and wear clothes that fit properly. Get a haircut that accentuates the positive. And do not underestimate a good cologne. I love it when guys wear cologne because it tells me that they made the effort to go out and get something that makes them smell nice. I am not a complete weirdo and I don't think that I am the only one who feels that way. If it's a weight issue, eat right and exercise. It will make you feel better anyway if you focus on health and not looking like an Adonis. Present your best self.
BTW, can anyone explain to me just what makes someone a 10?
BTW, can anyone explain to me just what makes someone a 10?
IDK, too hard to quantify and everyone has differing things that they like. I've like women that other men had zero interest in and vice versa, in other words it's all subjective.
IDK, too hard to quantify and everyone has differing things that they like. I've like women that other men had zero interest in and vice versa, in other words it's all subjective.
It's just weird to me because 10 to me implies perfection. Not one of us is perfect. If we are talking just about physical attraction, all of us have less than flattering moments, when we are sick, startled out of bed, etc.
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