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I get a one off joke about someone else as I have done it. My wife will do it as well but we both know it's in jest and never about our family that's just over the line.
The putting his hands on you... Again if it's a light spanking then it can be playful or sexual. If it was neither of those two then a clear sign of abusive tendencies.
I would leave the relationship asap based upon the info you have provided. Have a male friend or family member at the ready in case he violently reacts to that news.
Nothing we can say is going to convince you to do anything about this situation. You stayed through so much abuse so I don't believe that there is anything we can say to convince you otherwise. It's up to you whether you keep putting up with this or not. If it were me, I would've been gone after the FIRST offense.
If your asking isn't it already to stressful, to hurtful, to suspicious. You don't need proof you need alone time to build your self esteem. What would you say if it was a TV show? At the very least be honest with yourself. Treat yourself better then others will.
Nothing we can say is going to convince you to do anything about this situation. You stayed through so much abuse so I don't believe that there is anything we can say to convince you otherwise. It's up to you whether you keep putting up with this or not. If it were me, I would've been gone after the FIRST offense.
How did he get a second date with you? How did he become your boyfriend? How and why did you say "yes" to his proposal. Isn't being alone 10000 times better than being with someone like that? Is being alone that bad? Do keep in mind that while being with him, you are losing opportunity to be with the right one.
True colors weren't shown until I was already so far in and kind of stuck everything else was so subtle I didn't catch what he was doing. But I've reached out to my brother who lives about 40 miles away to see if he'll help me... Just waiting for a response and then I'll be setting a plan in motion.... I can't do this crap anymore I don't deserve it and neither do my girls... I have to stop the constant cycle of abuse in my life... I don't want them to think this is ok... I watched it growin up and I know what it did to me I don't want my babies to grow up feeling that way... Thank you everyone there will be an update soon...
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