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I know that many people are here to give me precious advices, in the middle of them there are some that...just doesn't help at all.
Ok. What i want to say is that, i was taking it like serious, my whole situation. But now, im just enjoying the time. Idk, i never saw someone saying this before. I will keep talking with him, but for now, like im just having a friend that we agreed to say funny things or lovely things. But deep inside myself, i know that nothing will come from this. I think thats the reason why im feeling so free now. I dont feel the pressure to make it real, or to be afraid of what he will do on future.
Hes a nice guy. Gave me support to some difficult things that i was facing. I will remain the same with him, but now i know in what role i have to perform.
If world gets crazy and wow something more happen, ok. But im feeling so much freedom now. I've felt angry bcs some people were saying things with sarcasm. But i can tell to everybody, the help that he gave to me, the help that i gave to him, thats real feeling and thats what make us humans.
If someone can close this thread, please.
Thanks for all of you, that made open my mind and my heart also. This i will never forget.
I know that many people are here to give me precious advices, in the middle of them there are some that...just doesn't help at all.
Ok. What i want to say is that, i was taking it like serious, my whole situation. But now, im just enjoying the time. Idk, i never saw someone saying this before. I will keep talking with him, but for now, like im just having a friend that we agreed to say funny things or lovely things. But deep inside myself, i know that nothing will come from this. I think thats the reason why im feeling so free now. I dont feel the pressure to make it real, or to be afraid of what he will do on future.
Hes a nice guy. Gave me support to some difficult things that i was facing. I will remain the same with him, but now i know in what role i have to perform.
If world gets crazy and wow something more happen, ok. But im feeling so much freedom now. I've felt angry bcs some people were saying things with sarcasm. But i can tell to everybody, the help that he gave to me, the help that i gave to him, thats real feeling and thats what make us humans.
If someone can close this thread, please.
Thanks for all of you, that made open my mind and my heart also. This i will never forget.
I am glad you appreciate the advice
Have you told your mom that he is talking marriage?
Indians rarely break with their parents. They'll date all over the spectrum but when it's time for marriage, they will want someone of the same religion, race, caste and sub-caste. A Hindu Kshatriya from Uttar Pradesh probably wouldn't even be able to marry a fellow Indian from Kerala with darker skin that's Christian.
I have a Krishna temple in my area and have worked with Indians throughout my life. I used to hang out with some that stayed at the temple. One of them owned a store that I used to go to.
It is very rare for the men to marry a latina I don't think I've ever heard of it in my life, but anything is possible I suppose. I guess nothing is going to stop love right. So we would be back to the fact that it's up to him to prove it.
Last edited by wanderlust76; 12-19-2017 at 10:21 PM..
Bcs feelings are real. Im just waiting to see if he us serious or not. I do love him, but i cant be inside a relationship if i dont see any chance of future on that.
Love is important, but is never, ever, enough. Not ever.
I was thinking like that before, but after knowing his culture, its an huge issue to tell parents about any relationship, bcs they will think right after about marriage. Or forbid the relationship going on. What he says its that he needs to end his MBA and stand in his own feet to do what he wants. This is running at my mind... if he is real and serious with me? If he is just living an romance that he cant go further? This is so hard to know. I wish I could know the future.
The culture is always going to be there. It won't get magically easier as time goes on.
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