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Old 12-17-2018, 12:51 PM
 
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I have been wondering. Women all get unsolicited pics of THAT variety from online dating sites and whatnot. Hell even my 15 year old kid gets them. Here is my question. What is going through the head of the sender? What does he think it will accomplish? What is he looking for? Thanks

 
Old 12-17-2018, 12:53 PM
 
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My guess is, and I'm only partially joking, is that it's their most prized possession, and they're very proud of it. "Surely such a phallic masterpiece should be enjoyed by the masses."
 
Old 12-17-2018, 01:04 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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i received one yesterday, completely unsolicited from a non dating site. I told him i thought he was a good guy...(prior to the dp he sent a pic with him and his daughters). He responded with he isn't a good guy, lets hook up and get drunk. I didn't share any pics of myself and i wasn't flirting. His pic wasn't impressive and i blocked him after. But i figured his thinking was, if i send my pic to 100+ women, someone will accept his offer.
 
Old 12-17-2018, 01:07 PM
 
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Pride
Ego
Nothing to lose

It’s a number of things, not just one reasoning and can’t be in the head of everyone who does it to tell you with certainty why they have.

What they want is confirmation and/or participation

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Old 12-17-2018, 01:08 PM
 
Location: California
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I have been wondering. Women all get unsolicited pics of THAT variety from online dating sites and whatnot. Hell even my 15 year old kid gets them. Here is my question. What is going through the head of the sender? What does he think it will accomplish? What is he looking for? Thanks
I'm not sure what they are thinking, but I know what I am thinking - check your email.

Steve Tamale
 
Old 12-17-2018, 01:39 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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The main reason is that guys who are willing to do this assume that women want what they want, and they want nude pics from YOU.

So ... they think that if they give, they also will receive.
 
Old 12-17-2018, 01:46 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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There's a meme going around that the dick pic is the equivalent of your cat bringing you a dead mouse. He's very pleased with himself, but you're a little grossed out wondering what to do with it

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Old 12-17-2018, 01:51 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Because, sometimes it works.


Not my style at all (ugh), but it sometimes works.
 
Old 12-17-2018, 01:55 PM
 
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I have been wondering. Women all get unsolicited pics of THAT variety from online dating sites and whatnot. Hell even my 15 year old kid gets them. Here is my question. What is going through the head of the sender? What does he think it will accomplish? What is he looking for? Thanks
Clearly he thinks it will materialize into sex. I'd like to say I'm guessing in saying it must work for some, but I know for a fact that it does. A single friend of mine jokingly said he's like Wilt Chamberlin (although I know it wasn't 10,000, lol). But I know that he engaged with 20+ women having a profile with THAT pic as the main one on a site, and a regular profile picture for those who went beyond it. Unfortunately, it didn't work out as well for Anthony Wiener

Mod cut.

Admittedly, I'm a little surprised anyone would be so shocked by it. My wife and her friends have all going to bachelor parties and had male strippers (oh the shock and awe). And I guess no woman would ever admit to having watched a porn before (c'mon).

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Old 12-17-2018, 02:10 PM
 
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Because, sometimes it works.


Not my style at all (ugh), but it sometimes works.
Has anyone had evidence of this working thing? It is hard as hell to imagine.
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