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Old 04-21-2019, 07:53 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Sorry but this doesn't feel like good advice based the current climate. The OP could end up going to bed with a smile on his face and waking up doing 5-10 for felony assault.
Hell, they would use that post as evidence in the trial.

OP, she is playing games and ain’t into you. Heed our warnings or you will wish you did.
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Old 04-21-2019, 08:05 AM
 
Location: The ghetto
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So what should I avoid, for future reference? Ask about them more? Talk about me more? The only thing about this specific situation is that we are friends and things aren’t as clean cut as if I met her on a dating site. So the “friendly” conversation will always be there.
I get that. And nothing wrong with being friends - often the best relationships are based on friendship. But that's different from being "just friends".

Bringing up her (ex) boyfriend sent the wrong message. She followed that up by saying she doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone right now. (Hello? This was supposed to be a date!)

Talk about anything except her (ex) boyfriend. I really think you should go to that BBQ.
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Old 04-21-2019, 08:46 AM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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Plenty of other fish.
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Old 04-21-2019, 10:54 AM
 
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I get that. And nothing wrong with being friends - often the best relationships are based on friendship. But that's different from being "just friends".

Bringing up her (ex) boyfriend sent the wrong message. She followed that up by saying she doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone right now. (Hello? This was supposed to be a date!)

Talk about anything except her (ex) boyfriend. I really think you should go to that BBQ.
The more time goes past and the more I realize that she probably went out to that dinner just as friends. With that being said, a while back when she asked my friend out to dinner, it was literally her texting him and saying “do you want to get food”. So I’m sure she got my hint. Idk at this point the ball is in her court. I tried lol

I am going to the bbq tho. Not for her but I promised a friend that I’d be there.
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Old 04-21-2019, 11:53 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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[quote=behindthescreen;54994587]She is not gf material. If you're looking to have sex, keep inviting her to your place for dinner/movie and get her drunk.[/QUOTE

OP do the exact opposite of this.

This is how you get accused of something serious.
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Old 04-21-2019, 03:02 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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Oh geez, not passed out drunk just tipsy

The drama
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Old 04-21-2019, 10:40 PM
 
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She is not gf material. If you're looking to have sex, keep inviting her to your place for dinner/movie and get her drunk.[/QUOTE

OP do the exact opposite of this.

This is how you get accused of something serious.
LMAO, I wouldn't be remotely worried about this guy even thinking of doing something like that. LMAO again.
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