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So I’ve been snap chatting this girl for a week, we’re friends although I’m not sure if I’m friend zoned or what the deal is. I’ll snap something flirty every now and then, the response isn’t negative, but I’m not getting anything flirty back my way, besides a good selfie.
Anyways, she’s talking about how crappy her job is today and I said “maybe once your off I can take you to dinner and you can tell me all about it”. Her response was how crappy her job was, instead of a giving me a solid answer, so I respond with “so no?” And she says “if you want to”. I told her next Saturday and she said alright.
Idk if the flirting/question just went over her head or if she was surprised/nervous. Did she say “if you want to” because I’m friend zoned or was she nervous? I mean she did agree to, assuming she doesn’t flake. Interested in hearing your opinions
So I’ve been snap chatting this girl for a week, we’re friends although I’m not sure if I’m friend zoned or what the deal is. I’ll snap something flirty every now and then, the response isn’t negative, but I’m not getting anything flirty back my way, besides a good selfie.
Anyways, she’s talking about how crappy her job is today and I said “maybe once your off I can take you to dinner and you can tell me all about it”. Her response was how crappy her job was, instead of a giving me a solid answer, so I respond with “so no?” And she says “if you want to”. I told her next Saturday and she said alright.
Idk if the flirting/question just went over her head or if she was surprised/nervous. Did she say “if you want to” because I’m friend zoned or was she nervous? I mean she did agree to, assuming she doesn’t flake. Interested in hearing your opinions
Is this a girl you've posted about previously?
She sounds lukewarm. Take her out, kiss her, and see what happens.
If she's still lukewarm, I would not bother, personally.
Friend-zoned? Did you ever actually tell her you were interested in more than friendship, or did you just assume that she should know/that if she talks to you she should be interested?
No, she doesn't sound particularly interested in you, and if you are not going to be happy unless you're more than her friend, do her a favor and let her go.
She sounds lukewarm. Take her out, kiss her, and see what happens.
If she's still lukewarm, I would not bother, personally.
Yes, same girl as the previous post. I cut her off for almost 2 months and she hit me up a week ago saying happy birthday. One thing led to another and here we are. I know now that she’s done with her ex and is single. I’m not expecting much out of it, at the end of the day I atleast get some experience out of it.
The way I’ve always known is anything other than a solid “yes” is 99% a no. But when she said “up to you” it kinda threw me off. Like did I do something wrong? Is she just nervous? Etc.
I’ll see how this turns out next week. If she flakes then I’m completely done entertaining her.
Yes, same girl as the previous post. I cut her off for almost 2 months and she hit me up a week ago saying happy birthday. One thing led to another and here we are. I know now that she’s done with her ex and is single. I’m not expecting much out of it, at the end of the day I atleast get some experience out of it.
The way I’ve always known is anything other than a solid “yes” is 99% a no. But when she said “up to you” it kinda threw me off. Like did I do something wrong? Is she just nervous? Etc.
I’ll see how this turns out next week. If she flakes then I’m completely done entertaining her.
Well, she doesn’t sound like relationship material but it sounds like you both are young and who knows, one thing could lead to another and you may get lucky.
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Personally I’d retract that date offer after that response. One thing I will not tolerate is a half lukewarm response to a serious question. Don’t get your hopes up on this one.
Personally I’d retract that date offer after that response. One thing I will not tolerate is a half lukewarm response to a serious question. Don’t get your hopes up on this one.
Dissenter, what do you want her to do? Jump up and down in excitement?
She was in the middle of telling him about her day and he interrupted her to ask her out.
And keep in mind she sent him a "good selfie". She's obviously interested.
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Dissenter, what do you want her to do? Jump up and down in excitement?
She was in the middle of telling him about her day and he interrupted her to ask her out.
And keep in mind she sent him a "good selfie". She's obviously interested.
Please, I get “good selfies” from women all the time and most of the female senders wouldn’t touch me romantically with a 10 foot pole. Obvious interest? Absolutely not from what I read in the OP.
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