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Old 09-22-2009, 09:01 PM
 
Location: NZ Wellington
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Originally Posted by Connecticut Pam View Post
Doesn't sound to me like this "moron" stuff is new with your husband. It sounds to me like he has behaved this way for a very long time and you have tolerated it. He is childish and immature...which is the good news and the bad news is that if he had done this for a while, he isn't going to change. At times, my husband will, instead of asking me if I did something say, "SOMEONE DECIDED TO not shut the door" or "SOMEONE" forgot to do such and such...poor "SOMEONE" gets blamed for everything. I have asked him to just come right out and ask me if I did or did not do a certain thing and so far poor "SOMEONE" is still in the dog house.

I don't consider this to make him a moron by a long shot but I do consider it to make him beyond irritating at times. Last time he did this I told him that I had packed "SOMEONE'S" bags and bought him a ticket to Seattle Washington...he looked at me dumbfounded.

So...........you either find out what is going on with your husband you call a moron and get him some help for his fits he throws or you paint your kitchen from now on minus his escorting you to the paint store ever again and live by yourself. Good Luck
" Last time he did this I told him that I had packed "SOMEONE'S" bags and bought him a ticket to Seattle Washington...he looked at me dumbfounded."
No no no no no. That's not how it's done
"SOMEONE" doesn't like her husband telling her when she did something wrong. - that's how its done.

"I had packed SOMEONE'S bag" isn't how he does it , it wouldn't make any sense at all.
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Old 09-22-2009, 09:04 PM
 
Location: NZ Wellington
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Hmm. I remember a pair of girls in college and I was pretty good friends with them. I had almost forgotten what they always said upon observing the social fallout: "Men are stupid and women are evil".
There is something evil about going public about one's stupid husband.
lol, now that I think about it you're right.
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Old 09-22-2009, 09:14 PM
 
Location: Happy wherever I am - Florida now
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Sounds like one of three things to me. ADD (forgetfulness & anger), laziness, or passive-agressive (trying to make you crazy). Maybe all three together.

A miserable scenario to tolerate that I wouldn't wish on anyone nor would I put up with. Life is short.
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Old 09-22-2009, 09:15 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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How easy it is to see the faults of others while totally ignoring your own... or do you folks not have any...
LOL....genius. I wasn't aware that responding to a thread about someone else's faults meant we ignored our own. When someone posts about ours, we will address it then.

Now, back to the ass-clown.....
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Old 09-22-2009, 09:16 PM
 
Location: NZ Wellington
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LOL....genius. I wasn't aware that responding to a thread about someone else's faults meant we ignored our own. When someone posts about ours, we will address it then.

Now, back to the ass-clown.....
Ours? Are you suggesting all men are like this?
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Old 09-22-2009, 09:17 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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Ours? Are you suggesting all men are like this?
You're not serious.
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Old 09-22-2009, 09:19 PM
 
Location: NZ Wellington
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You're not serious.
When you say "ours" I have to assume all women. - I get hooked on details a lot.
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Old 09-22-2009, 09:22 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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When you say "ours" I have to assume all women. - I get hooked on details a lot.
I was responding to BigJohn and it had nothing to do with gender.
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Old 09-22-2009, 09:23 PM
 
Location: NZ Wellington
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I was responding to BigJohn and it had nothing to do with gender.
Then why would you say "ours" in a attempt to separate yourself from big john accusation?
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Old 09-22-2009, 09:26 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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Then why would you say "ours" in a attempt to separate yourself from big john accusation?
I didn't attempt to separate myself from anything, I pointed out the senselessness of his statement. If you were really that attentive to detail, you'd see the "our" was in response to "you folks" as well the entire point of my response to him.

Anything else?
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