Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 09-17-2022, 07:27 AM
 
6,451 posts, read 3,967,826 times
Reputation: 17187

Advertisements

Interesting first and only post.

Am wondering where OP will work if she does end up hooking up with this "grand love"-- because certainly she can't keep being an underling for her lover the big boss. Or does she think this guy will support her and she won't have to work...
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 09-17-2022, 07:55 AM
 
10,341 posts, read 5,861,074 times
Reputation: 17885
Quote:
Originally Posted by mlj1225 View Post
Keep us updated on this perfect love affair. I like a good story!
Yes one involving young foreign girls who don’t know about work place harassment, but make a point more than once in a few posts of calling #MeToo “crap”.

Something stinks.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2022, 08:22 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
48,518 posts, read 34,807,002 times
Reputation: 73728
Talking about "grand love" when you know a guy for a couple weeks, only in a work environment, is NOT reasonable.

There is a reason everyone says you don't date where you work, but you are young, and think it is does not apply to your situation.

I do not think you are really looking for advice, you have it in your head how you will handle it, and probably will do exactly that. Probably will not turn out well, but keep us informed.
__________________
____________________________________________
My posts as a Mod will always be in red.
Be sure to review Terms of Service: TOS
And check this out: FAQ
Moderator: Relationships Forum / Hawaii Forum / Dogs / Pets / Current Events
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2022, 08:27 AM
 
Location: Kansas City North
6,814 posts, read 11,531,564 times
Reputation: 17130
It’s one thing if this were some easily replaced, dime-a-dozen job you could leave if you made your move and it didn’t work out. But since you say this is a dream job and it took a long time to get it, then you need to concentrate SOLELY on learning the job and doing the best you can. Otherwise you’re going to be looking for another job.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2022, 09:13 AM
 
Location: NMB, SC
43,054 posts, read 18,223,725 times
Reputation: 34928
Quote:
Originally Posted by Okey Dokie View Post
It’s one thing if this were some easily replaced, dime-a-dozen job you could leave if you made your move and it didn’t work out. But since you say this is a dream job and it took a long time to get it, then you need to concentrate SOLELY on learning the job and doing the best you can. Otherwise you’re going to be looking for another job.
She's already pictured him as the father of her kids.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2022, 11:21 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
29,739 posts, read 34,357,220 times
Reputation: 77034
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mikala43 View Post
Talking about "grand love" when you know a guy for a couple weeks, only in a work environment, is NOT reasonable.

There is a reason everyone says you don't date where you work, but you are young, and think it is does not apply to your situation.
If this scenario is for real, she's not even talking about being interested in another new employee or peer on her level, which can work in some cases, she's taking about the *cofounder of the company*, which is bananas.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2022, 11:35 AM
 
Location: Virginia
10,089 posts, read 6,420,662 times
Reputation: 27653
Quote:
Originally Posted by fleetiebelle View Post
If this scenario is for real, she's not even talking about being interested in another new employee or peer on her level, which can work in some cases, she's taking about the *cofounder of the company*, which is bananas.
But there's that "beautifully born sparkle" to consider". LOL.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2022, 12:13 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
4,040 posts, read 2,708,740 times
Reputation: 8479
Quote:
Originally Posted by RbccL View Post
Yes one involving young foreign girls who don’t know about work place harassment, but make a point more than once in a few posts of calling #MeToo “crap”.

Something stinks.
Exactly. I like to sit back and see how it all unfolds.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2022, 03:45 PM
 
Location: Midwest
9,399 posts, read 11,147,212 times
Reputation: 17878
Quote:
Originally Posted by TMSRetired View Post
She's already pictured him as the father of her kids.
I think Lost Child's screen name splains a whole lot.

Quote:
Originally Posted by fleetiebelle View Post
If this scenario is for real, she's not even talking about being interested in another new employee or peer on her level, which can work in some cases, she's taking about the *cofounder of the company*, which is bananas.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Bungalove View Post
But there's that "beautifully born sparkle" to consider". LOL.
Quote:
Originally Posted by mlj1225 View Post
Exactly. I like to sit back and see how it all unfolds.
Popcorn.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2022, 04:13 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
61,647 posts, read 87,001,838 times
Reputation: 131598
It just shows that being a nice boss can be so easily misinterpreted by a daydreaming, lonely and hungry for love, immature girl.
You're going to lose that job, and learn a life lesson.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top