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He probably doesn't want you overtly or subtly indicating that you've had a connection with him in the past (putting it delicately). It's clear he wants to preserve the relationship with her, and is heading you off at the pass.
You have your answer, so it seems you just want to win in this situation. If you don't think that's true, why not? Because you have your answer. Now it's about seeing whether he will choose you over her, no?
I don't want him to choose me over her I just want to know if she is his girlfriend. Maybe he wasn't running because of me I don't know. Me knowing if she's his girlfriend will give me clarity. If she is his girlfriend I will no longer entertain him and will ignore him completely even when he tries to get my attention.
I don't want to keep talking to him if she's his girlfriend.
Apparently you want him or you wouldn't be so interested in whether he has a girlfriend. That, or you are just trolling which is my guess. Because if you aren't trolling you need to seek help for your mental health.
Why do you even come here and ask if you ignore ALL answers. It is pretty rare that we are all saying the same thing. However, you do not listen.
So just go ahead, be stupid and keep going there, stalk him and run after this douchebag. He is probably laughing at you and telling everyone at the store you go there just for him and how pathetic you are.
Three years ago this guy cheated with me (he was in a relationship) we slept together once. And then a year later he tried to sleep with me again but I didn't sleep with him because I didn't know if he was in a relationship or not. I see him a lot where he works because he's a cashier at a store I go to a lot. When we see each other he'll tell me what he's been up to. And he'll ask me how I'm doing etc. Once he saw me laughing and talking to one of his coworkers and he interrupted our conversation.
So I notice he's always standing next to one of his coworkers. And when he's near her he doesn't speak to me. Today I saw them together and when I came in I saw him walk away from her. I've also seen pictures of them together (it was him, her and another one of their coworkers). And on one of her other social media accounts I saw a picture of them with his face cut off.
When I see him again I'm going to say "I didn't know your girlfriend worked here too" just to see what he'll say. Sometimes when I see her she looks at me and smiles.
This all sounds kind of familiar. Weren't you on here before about the same guy, at the store, and how he acts like he doesn't know you when he's around a particular woman?
Why do you even come here and ask if you ignore ALL answers. It is pretty rare that we are all saying the same thing. However, you do not listen.
So just go ahead, be stupid and keep going there, stalk him and run after this douchebag. He is probably laughing at you and telling everyone at the store you go there just for him and how pathetic you are.
We warned you but you did not want to hear.
I’m stalking him because I make small talk with him? If he thought I was stalking him then why does he engage with me? Why does he tell me he’s been out of town and the things he’s been up to? I don’t think a person who feels stalked would be engaging with the stalker. You are just being over dramatic if he really felt I was stalking him he would say something. He wouldn’t be having casual conversation with me. You’re calling me stupid because I talk to him you’re the one that’s stupid. There’s nothing wrong with talking to someone.
Three years ago this guy cheated with me (he was in a relationship) we slept together once. And then a year later he tried to sleep with me again but I didn't sleep with him because I didn't know if he was in a relationship or not. I see him a lot where he works because he's a cashier at a store I go to a lot. When we see each other he'll tell me what he's been up to. And he'll ask me how I'm doing etc. Once he saw me laughing and talking to one of his coworkers and he interrupted our conversation.
So I notice he's always standing next to one of his coworkers. And when he's near her he doesn't speak to me. Today I saw them together and when I came in I saw him walk away from her. I've also seen pictures of them together (it was him, her and another one of their coworkers). And on one of her other social media accounts I saw a picture of them with his face cut off.
When I see him again I'm going to say "I didn't know your girlfriend worked here too" just to see what he'll say. Sometimes when I see her she looks at me and smiles.
She looks at you and smiles because she's a sweet, friendly girl. Remember, she has no clue that you and her "boyfriend" (if he is her bf) have been together. Rule of thumb for you is if you 'think' he may have a girlfriend and he cheated on her, stay away from him and leave them alone.
There is no sense in causing drama or being involved in it. Just move on. He would cheat on you too. Leave them alone.
I’m stalking him because I make small talk with him? If he thought I was stalking him then why does he engage with me? Why does he tell me he’s been out of town and the things he’s been up to? I don’t think a person who feels stalked would be engaging with the stalker. You are just being over dramatic if he really felt I was stalking him he would say something. He wouldn’t be having casual conversation with me. You’re calling me stupid because I talk to him you’re the one that’s stupid. There’s nothing wrong with talking to someone.
Others on here have attempted to get through to you exercising the milk of human kindness...be advised, I have no such milk, or the need to be nice...hence my remarks: You need to go somewhere and sit down and knit a sweater or something, because what you are doing borders on stalking, and reeks of high school level drama
If you had the temerity to get in MY face acting like a stunted adolescent asking about my personal dealings with somebody who ain't and never would be you, trust me when I tell you, you'd better have a good dermatologist on speed dial, because you'd get roasted like a cheap KMart goose just before Christmas...
In short, quit wasting grown folks time, Miss Barbara just rang the recess ending bell...do something constructive with your time, and quit worrying about some dude who got your cookies and milk and went on to his next notch on his gun...Catfish out, y'all
And shop somewhere else if you can't act like a grownup.
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