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Let's say you meet someone IRL and they seem perfectly normal. They've captured your interest. After a couple of weeks, you discover they have social media, and find out they have an open profile and thousands of followers on Instagram. Most posts are normal pictures with friends and family, but then they also have the occasional post like this.
Would this be a dealbreaker for you? Also, would having too many followers or posting 75 stories per day be a dealbreaker?
Would them posting that in social media be a problem for me? No. I think it's kind of funny and there's something wrong with being sexy.
As far as the followers go, I'm not sure I've never been with somebody that into social media. If it doesn't take time away from us then sure go for it.
Let's say you meet someone IRL and they seem perfectly normal. They've captured your interest. After a couple of weeks, you discover they have social media, and find out they have an open profile and thousands of followers on Instagram. Most posts are normal pictures with friends and family, but then they also have the occasional post like this.
Would this be a dealbreaker for you? Also, would having too many followers or posting 75 stories per day be a dealbreaker?
Is this a serious question? "Dealbreaker" is not the word. "Complete and instant turnoff" is the relevant term here...
Or more succinctly: ew.
My millennial boyfriend is glued to his phone, aka social media. I do not understand how anyone could look at (dumb) videos and memes all day long. He cannot even bring dirty dishes into the kitchen without his phone on him. Luckily he is hardly posting anything himself and if, only motorcycle stuff.
If he would be posting all day stuff about himself (and me), I would be out the door. Complete dealbreaker to me.
I had a few dates with someone before who took pictures of me and us all the time, I did not think anything of it and then I saw myself all over his social media. Some pictures were not really flattering for me (in my opinion). He did not even ask me if I agree being visible to the world. I dumped him quite fast. I am lucky he took the pictures down.
Let's say you meet someone IRL and they seem perfectly normal. They've captured your interest. After a couple of weeks, you discover they have social media, and find out they have an open profile and thousands of followers on Instagram. Most posts are normal pictures with friends and family, but then they also have the occasional post like this.
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Would this be a dealbreaker for you? Also, would having too many followers or posting 75 stories per day be a dealbreaker?
LOL. Where would s/he have the time for you? Wouldn't you wonder where the camera was whenever you were with her/him?
Let's say you meet someone IRL and they seem perfectly normal. They've captured your interest. After a couple of weeks, you discover they have social media, and find out they have an open profile and thousands of followers on Instagram. Most posts are normal pictures with friends and family, but then they also have the occasional post like this.
Same . Ex w wasn't on sm and neither my partner.
lf l met someone and they were so into all that my respect would just about fly out the window especially for my age area, 40s early 50s, but there are plenty of them l know.
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