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Old 06-21-2008, 07:38 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Complete turn-on. It shows to me she knows what she wants and is willing to go after it. Plus, it takes a hell of a lot of pressure off me, haha.

I hate having to be the one to always initiate things. It makes a woman a lot more approachable when she makes the first move, and I'm lot more willing to put myself out there. It's not 1950 anymore, so I think in this day and age, it's appropriate for either sex to make the first move.
Good answer, besides If women want equal rights vis a vis then they need to start doing some of the chasin
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Old 06-21-2008, 07:41 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Complete horsecrap. I hate "the chase."
Whatever...

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I'm a busy student--I have better things to do with my life than to spend every waking moment chasing after a girl.
Then don't. Who cares.

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We're not all cavemen so quit stereotyping. It gets old.
What I have to say is my business. How people take it is theirs.
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Old 06-21-2008, 08:19 PM
 
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as long as she isn't the size of Jabba The Hut with a face to match then all should be well for men....guys will be flattered (unless they have major control/boundary issues).
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Old 06-21-2008, 08:44 PM
 
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how Do Guys Feel About The Woman Making The First Move?

It Could Be As Harmless As Being The First Person To Say Hey Or It Could Have More Intent Behind It Such As A Woman Asking A Guy If He Wants To Go Out To Eat, Go Somewhere With Her To An Event, Etc.

All For It!
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Old 06-21-2008, 09:19 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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It's the only way I get into relationships, is if they approach me.

As long as they use words, and not actions. Some strange woman rubbing up against me is a big turn off.

Last edited by TKramar; 06-21-2008 at 09:45 PM.. Reason: gender clarification!!
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Old 06-21-2008, 09:21 PM
 
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what is he rubbing against you? HAHA!

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As long as they use words, and not actions. Some stranger rubbing up against me is a big turn off.
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Old 06-21-2008, 09:45 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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what is he rubbing against you? HAHA!

Thanks, I edited my post to clear it up!
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Old 06-21-2008, 09:55 PM
 
Location: AR
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It's the only way I get into relationships, is if they approach me.

As long as they use words, and not actions. Some strange woman rubbing up against me is a big turn off.
Uh, are you sure about that? The rubbing part, I mean. Because if she's running a 7-10 on the rating scale, the rubbing should be accepted. If she's a hottie, by all means, you should let her rub you like a magic lamp. Just don't let the genie pop out.
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Old 06-21-2008, 09:58 PM
 
Location: In my view finder.....
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It's fine by me..........it's not a turn on or off for me.


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How do guys feel about the woman making the first move?

It could be as harmless as being the first person to say hey or it could have more intent behind it such as a woman asking a guy if he wants to go out to eat, go somewhere with her to an event, etc.
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Old 06-21-2008, 10:04 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Uh, are you sure about that? The rubbing part, I mean. Because if she's running a 7-10 on the rating scale, the rubbing should be accepted. If she's a hottie, by all means, you should let her rub you like a magic lamp. Just don't let the genie pop out.
I don't particularly like being TOUCHED in the first place. I don't particularly care for it when my GIRLFRIEND does it, I definitely don't want someone I don't KNOW doing it!

Outside of sex, there's NO touching me. First rule.
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