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Old 07-01-2008, 08:38 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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If straight women can entertain the thought about being with other women then I do not see why men cannot. The thing is that there is less of a stigma for women and they are more vocal about it. I am pretty sure its just as common for men as it is for women but because of the stigma it is hidden.

Well I'll speak for myself only, as a straight woman, I DO NOT entertain the though of being with another woman ever. If I did, I would not be straight.
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Old 07-01-2008, 08:40 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I have never ever thought of/will ever/would ever think of or be with another man..
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Old 07-01-2008, 08:47 PM
 
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Old 07-01-2008, 08:53 PM
 
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Well I'll speak for myself only, as a straight woman, I DO NOT entertain the though of being with another woman ever. If I did, I would not be straight.
Never said all women do I was just saying that there are lots of women who do. It is seen as the norm these days. If you haven't noticed women talking about being with other women openly you must be living under a rock.

Hell on the radio every 5 seconds they place this song..

YouTube - Katy Perry - I Kissed a Girl (Official Video)

Are men less capable of these feelings? No its just that its more acceptable for women. That is what I was trying to say.
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Old 07-01-2008, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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Never said all women do I was just saying that there are lots of women who do. It is seen as the norm these days. If you haven't noticed women talking about being with other women openly you must be living under a rock.

Hell on the radio every 5 seconds they place this song..

YouTube - Katy Perry - I Kissed a Girl (Official Video)

Are men less capable of these feelings? No its just that its more acceptable for women. That is what I was trying to say.
No, I've never heard a straight woman talking about getting it on with another woman. Lesbians, yes, I've heard them talking about it. A couple swinger couples I know, yes I've heard them, but they are bi, not straight.
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Old 07-01-2008, 09:00 PM
 
Location: Texas
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My thought process is.. if you are thinking about being with the same sex.. and in a marriage/relationship.. you are Bi.. wether you did anything or not.. to think that way says one thing about yourself...
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Old 07-01-2008, 09:14 PM
 
Location: California
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Never said all women do I was just saying that there are lots of women who do. It is seen as the norm these days. If you haven't noticed women talking about being with other women openly you must be living under a rock.

Hell on the radio every 5 seconds they place this song..

YouTube - Katy Perry - I Kissed a Girl (Official Video)

Are men less capable of these feelings? No its just that its more acceptable for women. That is what I was trying to say.
Well i asked my wife about all these women sitting around talking about being with other women, my wife laughed and said she's never heard any talking like this and she works in a office of 1000 employees, maybe they talk like this on TV and radio but thats not real life. you might just be wishing it's the norm but I doubt it really is.

The reason you don't see men talking like this is because they are not gay, pretty simple.
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Old 07-01-2008, 09:21 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Well i asked my wife about all these women sitting around talking about being with other women, my wife laughed and said she's never heard any talking like this and she works in a office of 1000 employees
LOL, is there an office where people talk about their secret fantasies and/or not very socially acceptable behaviors...? I'm yet to hear about one, but if somebody has a story to share...
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Old 07-01-2008, 09:21 PM
 
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Well i asked my wife about all these women sitting around talking about being with other women, my wife laughed and said she's never heard any talking like this and she works in a office of 1000 employees, maybe they talk like this on TV and radio but thats not real life. you might just be wishing it's the norm but I doubt it really is.

The reason you don't see men talking like this is because they are not gay, pretty simple.
Its more acceptable for women is what I mean. But if a guy says something about a thought he had everybody jumps down his throat.
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Old 07-01-2008, 09:24 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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Its more acceptable for women is what I mean. But if a guy says something about a thought he had everybody jumps down his throat.
What is more acceptable? You can't be straight one minute and bi-sexual the next and then back to being straight again.

You are either straight, gay or bi-sexual. A straight man does not desire a man and a straight woman does not desire another woman. That is what we are trying to say. If you do, then you are either gay or bi-sexual, NOT STRAIGHT.
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