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I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I have been approached by women, and , as a young man, I was far from being ugly.
Like the OP, I hate being turned down, so I'd rather have the females do the "hard work", unfortunately it's seldom the case.
I found British women were way more direct than the others, but once they had had their one-nite-stand, most of the time you became a stranger to them, which is both unpleasant and rude (talk of "male rudeness"...)
As guys , we must face the fact that at any age dating ain't easy unless one is some kind of "star", one has to "wet one's shirt" if one wants to get somewhere.
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Originally Posted by SifuPhil
Actually, I can vouch that doing that gets you even LESS dates...
That's what happens because men frown upon the self-help books, articles, etc. Plenty of good advice out there that can get you just about anybody, but why would they care to read stuff like this... they know it all...
That's what happens because men frown upon the self-help books, articles, etc. Plenty of good advice out there that can get you just about anybody, but why would they care to read stuff like this... they know it all...
What the ham-and-cheese has that rant got to do with "wetting one's shirt"? Did you not get my pun? *sigh*
I can honestly say that I've been pursued as much as I have done the pursuing. It seems that traditionally the man has to ask the woman....but I suppose I haven't ever been traditional in that sense.
Because of your narrow veiw of who is acceptable to you I think you need to do the seeking. If you depend solely on the woman to come to you then the ones that do will likely not fit your mold.
When I go to the beach or to the movies, I keep my distance.
Ladies, whoever would explore Sifu's brothers' personalities , please raise your hand!
Well, they're all smiling and have alluring eyes, right? All they need now is big shoulders and hands, a backbone and a 401K and they'll be all set, right?
Well, they're all smiling and have alluring eyes, right? All they need now is big shoulders and hands, a backbone and a 401K and they'll be all set, right?
Yep, they're all set with some DEEP, DEEP, VEEEERY DEEP women!
As far as I'm concerned, I'm not touching any of them had they been millionaires.
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they know it all...
All they need now is big shoulders and hands, a backbone and a 401K and they'll be all set, right? 
