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My opinion is that bars and clubs are probably not very good places to meet marriage material......at least not for me. Now, on the other hand, my wife and I have been to our share of clubs, etc. but we didn't meet in that type of setting.
meeting them anywhere will not move you any closer to your goals
well lets see ---priorites
i dont have a job
i got limited skills
i hate to dance
i really like pretty women but dont have one
dont have much money
prioritize your needs
I think its ignroant to say you cant find a good person in a bar or nigthclub,id like to think im a good guy and hang out in bars frequently,im still young only 29 most of my friends and people my age still hang out in these places to socialize on weekends and unwind from the past week
Im not ready to just play bingo on weekends just yet,it doesnt mean im a sexaholic who has no intentions of sleeping with someobdy the firts night and never seeing them again
I think it's possible, I mean if a group of friends decide to go out dancing or whatever, does that mean they aren't marriage material just because they decided to have a night out?
There's a stigma attached to the whole bar/club thing that I don't get sometimes. Sure, there are creeps who are just looking to score, but I don't believe that there is no one of standards and quality there. I met my ex-bf in a club, we dated 4 yrs and got engaged, (it didn't work out, but that's beside the point). My friend and I just felt like going out dancing, that's all!! (and we are both marriage "material"! )
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Originally Posted by Jesse69
Are bars and nightclubs good places to meet "marriage material?" - Or are these places just meat markets to find someone for sex? Have you ever met worthy material at these places, or are these just shallow party people?
I don't like going to bars because I don't drink, I don't go to nightclubs because I don't like dancing, and often the actions / crowd comes late at night like after 10:30 pm - that's when I wanna be home!
I just go shopping anywhere and do tend to see pretty women enough by chance, I'm just shy and not good enough at making the move. Plus I'm unemployed now and feel like a loser.
No, clubs and bars are not good places to find relationship-quality people, let alone marriage material. I will not consider a woman relationship material that goes to the club/bar.
This question is kind of silly, if people didn't meet at bars and at least some of them getting together for a relationship, then explain how the f there are so many friggin night clubs and bars.
It's equally silly to even consider someone relationship material that goes to the club. Most women that frequent bars/nightclubs are not of good moral character.
Some people have good sense to look for quality mates outside the bar/nightclub scene
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