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How could you possibly know that? I would think it would be very bad luck to think that, much less say it out loud.
I'm not bragging, darling. I was right there with my best friend going through the pain of it when she found several of her exes cheating on her. I don't wish it on anyone and reading this thread and all the stories was just a reminder. I sympatize.
I had a really bad boyfriend one time and I was tormented by the way he seemed to float through life like Tephlon . . . he did horrible things to many people and seemingly never had to pay for it. This was so disturbing to me, it caused me to have a real crisis of faith because I had formerly believed that "what goes around, comes around."
I never got to see what became of him and now do not care, but initially I expected that he would somehow have to "pay" for the bad things he did to people. I now realize it is not my business and that everything happens in its own time, but it was a very painful lesson that I learned because I had the expectation that I would see the karma and somehow be vindicated and that never happened.
Well I haven't been cheated on but my fiance that I had in my early 20's (15 years ago) treated me like absolute dirt (mama didn't like me and I found out she was anti-semetic and I am from a jewish family). I will just say that I saw his picture recently and he looks terrible in his early 40's, is single, fat and balding, and just hops from one pathetic job to another after getting kicked out of art school. I got my bs in physics, am working on a masters in statistics, have a well paying job that I love, have two lovely sons, am a competitive long distance runner, and am married to a wonderful man that treats me like a queen. I'd say that's some kind of revenge.
I don't believe in Karma- it's not what is done to you, but how you react to it ... It is what it is. I have never wished poorly or harm on anyone, I've moved on, gotten over it, and tried to live a better life for me- that's MY karma to them.
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