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He loves me, and holds me, and does what is necessary, but I feel like he is losing interest in me...I work, am a mother, and a homemaker for them all...how do I get him to realize I need some special things sometimes...We never even went on a date until after we lived together...I just want some romance...I love him and he is my best friend, but the kind of best friend you can't something too because you know it will hurt them...any suggestions?
Don't be too available and submissive. Make an effort to look good. I'm not saying make an effort because it means that you should be like a possession but if you start injecting some mystery into your relationship, you will be suprised how a guy perks up. Let him realise that you are worth taking time and effort over. It's easy to fall into a rut without realising it. Some new perfume, nice undies and make up every day will make him think. He needs to feel that he does not want to lose you and that you are attractive to other guys. No need for big plays but just subtle take aways. Act nonchalant but not cold. He must feel that he mustn't take you for granted.
When I was married, it didn't take much to regain his interest. Sometimes just rubbing his face in my bosom or flashing the 'girls' was enough. Other times, I'd bend over in his face with a short summer dress on. Seemed to do the trick.
msmason..... DontH8Me is right.
You need to put a bit of a fire under him without him realising that you are doing it. Teassing can put life back into a flagging relationship as long as it within what you both find to be acceptable. Sometimes if you teasse to aggresively it can scare some guys. They suddenly label you as being a tart.
Another good way is to use slight touching and carressing but not leading to sex. It can be good to be intimate without feeling the pressure of having to go all the way every time.
If I was married, all she has to do is show me her big fat "lips" and she's got my attention.......
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Originally Posted by DontH8Me
When I was married, it didn't take much to regain his interest. Sometimes just rubbing his face in my bosom or flashing the 'girls' was enough. Other times, I'd bend over in his face with a short summer dress on. Seemed to do the trick.
He loves me, and holds me, and does what is necessary, but I feel like he is losing interest in me...I work, am a mother, and a homemaker for them all...how do I get him to realize I need some special things sometimes...We never even went on a date until after we lived together...I just want some romance...I love him and he is my best friend, but the kind of best friend you can't something too because you know it will hurt them...any suggestions?
yea...TELL HIM.. us guys can not read minds!! like you women think....
Show him the divorce papers that should do the trick
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