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I'm 31, and the guy I was dating said he was a virgin, he was 22. If that was the case he is no longer a virgin. But, it didn't matter to me one bit. The chemistry was there, and I can teach, no problem.
I don't think it is a bad thing, in fact it is wonderful that you have decided to wait, more power to ya, I wish we could all have that kind of restraint.
If he had said he wasn't a virgin but was....ummm...not good.
If he had said he was a virgin but wasn't....ummm...not good.
honesty is much more important than if you are a virgin or not.
I like to look at it this way... When I sleep with my wife (when I find her, She is a freakin' pro at hide and seek) for the first time, it is going to be the BEST sex I have EVER had.
omg..you are so freaking cute...yes it will be wonderful for you...with that personality...it will have to be, don't stress it yungun'
On one hand, it'd be nice to know I probably don't have to worry much about STDs from him.
On the other hand, he'd have a lot to learn.
If I was a virgin and I was about to have sex for the first time with a male who was also a virgin (not matter what his intentions), I think a lot could go wrong, especially if we were both poorly educated about sex.
But if I was not a virgin and was about to do the deed with a male who was I don't think I'd worry so much.
I don't think there's anything wrong with being a virgin at your age. You probably have your reasons.
To the OP don't fret, I'm 25 and still a Virgin. Just about every time I go shopping at the mall I get a phone number or too. Its just that I feel that I will be bringing something original to the marriage when the time comes. I understand that my girlfriend may not be one but she wont have to worry about me getting tired of her. Not many people these days can say that they gave their virginity to their partner for their wedding gift. Its just that many chicks find me attractive but are turned off by my lack of experience. I've even been asked out by 2 married women at work. I declined without giving reason though.
Personally I think a little bit of experience is probably a good thing in terms of knowing what to do and how to do it properly but fun can still be had with a virgin. But a little experience only , not someone who has been around the block too many times either !
I don't think it matters that greatly to be honest whether he's a virgin or not , but even if completely inexperienced then so what ? Part of the great fun and pleasure of a loving sexual relationship is to discover each other and learn as you go along in a way. Sex is fun and finding pleasure and new ways to please each other is surely part of the game. Though I think it might be fun to teach someone some stuff too...
At the end of the day I think inexperience is not that much of a stumbling block . But Experience has its good points too.
I must admit I have always been more attracted to older men rather than younger ones . There is something really sexy about a man who knows how to treat you well , in all senses of the word. Some older men anyway.
Adult male virgins are not as rare as you might think. According to data from the most recent (2002) federal government survey, nearly one-fourth of males in all age groups from 22 to 44 who have never been married or cohabited are still virgins. For college graduates and white males the percentage is even higher.
Among males generally (but not females) there is a trend toward greater sexual conservatism. For example, in three government surveys, the percent of white 15-17 year-old boys reporting that they were virgins increased from 55% in 1988 to 65% in 1995 to 75% in 2002. There was a similar trend between 1995 and 2002 among 18-19 year-old white males and among 15-19 year-old black males.
Adult male virgins are not as rare as you might think. According to data from the most recent (2002) federal government survey, nearly one-fourth of males in all age groups from 22 to 44 who have never been married or cohabited are still virgins. For college graduates and white males the percentage is even higher.
Among males generally (but not females) there is a trend toward greater sexual conservatism. For example, in three government surveys, the percent of white 15-17 year-old boys reporting that they were virgins increased from 55% in 1988 to 65% in 1995 to 75% in 2002. There was a similar trend between 1995 and 2002 among 18-19 year-old white males and among 15-19 year-old black males.
or maybe they are just more conservative about letting people know their business???
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But, it didn't matter to me one bit. The chemistry was there, and I can teach, 
, I wish we could all have that kind of restraint.
