Guys, would you prefer a virgin over a experienced woman? (older, kiss)

[MsRiss7383]

Originally Posted by Future Trooper

I would choose a Virgin because there wouldnt be any criticism.

I think the first words I uttered after losing my virginity were, "so that's it?"

[Neemy]

Originally Posted by MsRiss7383

I think the first words I uttered after losing my virginity were, "so that's it?"

Mine were "Did it go all the way in?"

His answer? "No."

And then I cried, thinking we hadn't really "done it".

Was that TMI? >.<

[boodhabunny]

lol

[Neemy]

Well... he was rather... "endowed". <.<

It took 3 weeks for me to get up enough nerve to try again. It hurt just as bad the second time, but at least I didn't pass out.

This was the guy I ended up marrying. And divorcing.

[Yzette]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Ha-ha, thank you for being honest. That's precisely why some have preference for virgins.

Little do they know that a woman doesn't have to have experience to know when a man is a lousy lay. A three-pump-chump who is clueless about female anatomy isn't going to leave any lasting impressions--that he'd be proud of, at any rate.

[onihC]

Originally Posted by Avienne

Little do they know that a woman doesn't have to have experience to know when a man is a lousy lay. A three-pump-chump who is clueless about female anatomy isn't going to leave any lasting impressions--that he'd be proud of, at any rate.

Exactly. Experience doesn't necessarily mean someone is good at doing something. A guy can say he's been around the block and be clueless about how to please a woman. A woman can act all sexy and powerful, yet, be a complete failure in bed, a deer on headlights or dead fish in bed.

Another misconception is to think that a girl who is virgin is tight. Nope, not necessarily. Maybe virginity was such a big deal before but nowadays I hear more people see it as a hassle to deal with.

[Rakin]

Even if a man preferred a virgin it would be extremely hard to find one past past the age of 17 (and dropping).

Past the age of 25 I'd be concerned there was a mental or physical problem.

[onihC]

Originally Posted by Rakin

Even if a man preferred a virgin it would be extremely hard to find one past past the age of 17 (and dropping).

Past the age of 25 I'd be concerned there was a mental or physical problem.

I've known around 3 couples already where BOTH were virgins until their wedding night. They seemed totally healthy to me.

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by Rakin

Even if a man preferred a virgin it would be extremely hard to find one past past the age of 17 (and dropping).

Past the age of 25 I'd be concerned there was a mental or physical problem.

Kind of what I was thinking too.

[Rakin]

Originally Posted by onihC

I've known around 3 couples already where BOTH were virgins until their wedding night. They seemed totally healthy to me.

I can agree with that but you also don't know the very intimate details of their sex life and the lack of experience. Also, 3 out of how many couples you know that were not virgins ?

Anytime someone tells me something like "My wife was a Virgin" or "Elect me and I'll lower your taxes", I take it with a very big grain of salt.