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Once a week! I would do anything if my husband wanted to make love once a week! Try once every three months! And that is if I make the first move. The rest of the time he acts like its a chore or ignores me altogether! But either way I know how it hurts and I hope things get better for you.
Here is my on going problem, my husband is super sweet and is affectionate all the time except he has a BIG porn addiction and he is only interested in sex with me once a week- if Im lucky. I challenged him to have sex with me everyday for a month and he said that is mentally unstable to ask! I have always been cute and guys love to flirt with me and I keep in shape, so what is the deal, is my marriage over?
How about you PM me your picture and phone number ?
My wife has got the same problem with me.
Or better said : OP, I'm a bit like your husband (only worse, since we didn't have sex since a long, long time).
But we are both close to 60, have been together for 20 years.
Can't we have a break to the obligation today's society makes to all couples to have intercourse at least 3 times a week? even after 20,30, 40, 50, 60 years life in common? is it not simply human to feel less sexual desire (which doesn't mean less feeling, quite the opposite ) after a while?
Why you would put up with this for 5 years is beyond me. But your choices are him getting some help because obviously his addiction is affecting his desire for sex. Or divorce him because it's not worth staying in a marriage where you have an unhappy sex life.
Once a week! I would do anything if my husband wanted to make love once a week! Try once every three months! And that is if I make the first move. The rest of the time he acts like its a chore or ignores me altogether! But either way I know how it hurts and I hope things get better for you.
Then why stay married to him? Seems like it's nothing more than just a friendship and not worth the time.
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