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Thats the thing, I was not wasting anymore time on her. I am out there looking for a new relationship with some success but is it weird that I compare the girls I meet to this girl? I think I am just hung up on this girl that got away thing but I also feel we have spent way too much time being friends ( almost 4 years now) to just let it fizzle into nothing...
And to those saying Im stuck in the friend zone, do the times we made out not count for anything b/c alcohol is involved*??
*were not talking black out drunk, just a few beers/wine
Just because you might have slept together doesn't mean you had a relationship.
Just because you might have slept together doesn't mean you had a relationship.
If you say "dibs" while screwing her it does.
However, if she says "double dibs reversal" within 10 seconds it cancels it so you have to time when you say "dibs" to when she might be unable to utter a coherent response.
Sounds like you are a friend with benefits to her.But don't worry there is a chance she will see you in a different light eventually 20 years from now after 2 kids and a abusive husband or two she'll come knocking on your door wanting to make up for lost time,with a cart of emotional and financial baggage.
OK its time for another round of what should I do, this time with voting !
Scenario: I have known this girl since my jr year at college, shes very attractive and we get along great, but we never went into a relationship. There were the occasional drunken make out sessions but nothing ever came of them, the last one ended with me telling her how I feel about her and her saying she is not ready for another relationship (she had recently broke up with a long term bf after he was caught cheating, the retard).
One of the main problems is we now live in seperate towns post graduation, shes still in Dayton while Im in Cbus. But I would still go and visit and she would come to cbus so we would see each other ~ every month. But the last time I went down was in October and she had a bf, she bascally completely ingnored everything I had told her and doesnt believe I meant them b/c I had been drinking.
Well to add insult to injury she has came down to Cbus a couple times since then, and both times she would call me and say she missed me all that jazz, but come the day shes in town she doesn't answer her phone or return my messages... The last time was in Feb and I have not made contact since, well now she is contacting me again and saying she misses me and whatnot, so what should I do???
PS she is still with the same BF
I'm confused as all hell by this post....
1) Theses drunken make out sessions...was she by any chance with "long term boyfriend" when this occured? Or is "long term" three weeks to you?
2) this you two traveling to see each other...was this during her time of being with "long term boyfriend"?
3) just from your description of events it sounds like you're the boy who doesn't realize you're sort of a g-friend she runs to inbetween...No offense
However, if she says "double dibs reversal" within 10 seconds it cancels it so you have to time when you say "dibs" to when she might be unable to utter a coherent response.
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You might also have to keep your fingies and toes crossed too!
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Yeah, but if you do that in the middle of the humpalumpadingdong, you might sprain something.
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Consider it a form of Pilates.
You are the reason I keep coming back to CD. I haven't laughed this hard in days.
To the OP, forget her and move on! She's not worth chasing after anyway, with the way she's been acting.
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None of the above. No need to tell someone to F off just because they're not interested in you romantically. If you can be friends and hang out without secretly getting your hopes up, fine. Get a date and take her along--but not in hopes of making this girl jealous--and just have fun as friends, see how that goes. Me, I'd cut it off if I couldn't handle just being friends but I wouldn't be angry at them.
OK its time for another round of what should I do, this time with voting !
Scenario: I have known this girl since my jr year at college, shes very attractive and we get along great, but we never went into a relationship. There were the occasional drunken make out sessions but nothing ever came of them, the last one ended with me telling her how I feel about her and her saying she is not ready for another relationship (she had recently broke up with a long term bf after he was caught cheating, the retard).
One of the main problems is we now live in seperate towns post graduation, shes still in Dayton while Im in Cbus. But I would still go and visit and she would come to cbus so we would see each other ~ every month. But the last time I went down was in October and she had a bf, she bascally completely ingnored everything I had told her and doesnt believe I meant them b/c I had been drinking.
Well to add insult to injury she has came down to Cbus a couple times since then, and both times she would call me and say she missed me all that jazz, but come the day shes in town she doesn't answer her phone or return my messages... The last time was in Feb and I have not made contact since, well now she is contacting me again and saying she misses me and whatnot, so what should I do???
PS she is still with the same BF
She's pretty darn smart. She has her bo in Dayton and still plays you in Cbus like a chump- and you seem to love it.
I love it, I really do. She strings you along like a pro. How's it feel to have a hook in your lower lip being reeled in and let out, reeled in and let out, reeled in and let out... I wonder how many dozen times she can do it to ya, big fella.
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