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Yes, I believe that the verses I ref'd cover the topic from cover to cover and right on the money: lusting over something is a breach of loyalty to a conflicting interest. No brainer about it.
Ok then. Your belief, I respect it. Don't agree, but respect your right to embrace it.
LOL, I experienced something quite interesting last night in relation to this.
I usually see my boyfriend on the weekends, but this weekend was an "off weekend". Last night, we were chatting on the phone, and decided to do some "playing" online. Long story short, he and I were on cam, and I was cybering with someone else. He could see the interaction between this other person and myself, and, more importantly, could see what I was doing as I was typing.
What was I doing? Sitting on my couch in sweat pants and a t-shirt, trying to stay awake enough to type. What he said to me at that point was an eye-opener for me.
It was something like "yup, I bet that's what most women are like on the other end".
I can't say that I can disagree.
LOL! Exactly why I wouldn't get all bent out of shape over "sex chats." They're more comical than anything, I'd think. Anyone who would take them seriously would be similar to the little man who buys a Playboy and fantasizes that Miss February "wants" him.
Of course, anyone who sits in front of the computer totally "into" these things all of the time with a camera and such is sick and has a problem.
Hmm. Now it makes me wonder how you imagined not respecting my right to embrace it... Duel, my choice of weapons?
Honestly, it was your way of saying it initially. Like it was the "be all, end all". After all of these years, I should let this stuff roll of my back, but it still gets to me.
As long as I got to reap the benefits when she got off the computer... No worries. To me it is really not that much different than having a fantasy in her mind while, jacking off, so to speak.
Of course I wouldn't go along with masturbating in front of the computer or web cameras. I was referring to sex talk. As I said, the person on the other computer is probably NOT what she purports to be and might not even be a "she" at all, LOL. That's why I wouldn't get all bent out of shape over talk.
But the question was about cyber sex, not just "sex talk".
Sometimes I cyber sex chat with people I know. But usually while the guy is getting off, I'm siting there eating popcorn and watching t.v. . So for me, its not cheating. But if my boyfriend does it, then I would want to know why he's not satisfied with me? And I would call it cheating ( a little).
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Duel, my choice of weapons? 
And I would call it cheating ( a little).
