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Old 05-31-2009, 10:41 AM
 
Location: West Virginia
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....i didn't get anything for him...yet...i am thinking of getting a card or something...yesterday he said he was going to buy me a gift but he was busy with fixing his car..he said he felt bad about this and he will go buy one for me...i didn't bring this topic up, so i was happy to hear those words coming from him....

do you think a card is a good gift for him? any suggestions on the gift?

OH..i am 25...
If you want to get him a card, get him a card. I just don't see how one month is so monumental and I think all of the other people on here agree with me.

Just one question, are you going to expect this from hime each and every month? -mmccul
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Old 05-31-2009, 11:21 AM
 
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....i didn't get anything for him...yet...i am thinking of getting a card or something...yesterday he said he was going to buy me a gift but he was busy with fixing his car..he said he felt bad about this and he will go buy one for me...i didn't bring this topic up, so i was happy to hear those words coming from him....

do you think a card is a good gift for him? any suggestions on the gift?

OH..i am 25...
NO. NO gifts. There is NO anniversary to celebrate. You need to wait another 11 months, then ask for suggestions.

You are far too old to be acting this childish.
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Old 05-31-2009, 11:39 AM
 
Location: somewhere south of Canada
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NO. NO gifts. There is NO anniversary to celebrate. You need to wait another 11 months, then ask for suggestions.

You are far too old to be acting this childish.
Ditto!

Relationships where one person DEMANDS gifts and attention are pretty much doomed IMHO.
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Old 05-31-2009, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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The saddest part is that he is indulging this non-sense. He's setting himself up for a world of hurt, which I'm sure you'll be glad to inflict. You are extremely selfish. He's getting you a gift so you are getting him a card?

Since you are insisting on a gift, why not get him something similar to what you demanded from him? Or better yet act like a grown woman tell him that dinner was your gift and fix him a meal at home?
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Old 05-31-2009, 12:32 PM
 
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OP: how many relationships have you had that lasted longer than 1 month?
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Old 05-31-2009, 02:03 PM
 
Location: West Virginia
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Go buy some sexy stuff at Victoria's Secret, the gift that keeps on giving! -mmccul
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Old 05-31-2009, 08:19 PM
 
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OP: how many relationships have you had that lasted longer than 1 month?
this is my first official boyfriend...before this I only dated some guys, but they were not my boyfriends...I dated a guy for 4 months..that was the longest time..
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Old 05-31-2009, 08:20 PM
 
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The saddest part is that he is indulging this non-sense. He's setting himself up for a world of hurt, which I'm sure you'll be glad to inflict. You are extremely selfish. He's getting you a gift so you are getting him a card?

Since you are insisting on a gift, why not get him something similar to what you demanded from him? Or better yet act like a grown woman tell him that dinner was your gift and fix him a meal at home?
I don't really like cooking...
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Old 05-31-2009, 08:21 PM
 
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Go buy some sexy stuff at Victoria's Secret, the gift that keeps on giving! -mmccul
i can do this
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Old 05-31-2009, 08:22 PM
 
Location: southern california
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its nice if the guys does stuff for you, but im tellin ya the ones that do the sir frances drake routine got muddy feet all over them.
signed
muddy coat huck
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