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See, the problem unattractive men have is that they feel entitled to and wronged by not getting BEAUTIFUL women. It's not like they give the time of day to women looking like them.
Good point. I wonder if the OP has actually done this.
You are wrong, just on the fact that you are talking in extremes. You cannot back that there aren't women in your shoes just as you cannot back that "every" woman is appealing to some man. It is patently absurd.
I can prove that. If you look at porn for men (porn DVDs) they have catagories from fat to skinny, old to young etc. This is a window to what men find attractive, and it is all over the place.
Now, compare that to porn for women, i.e., romance novels. When was the last time you saw a romance novel with a short, balding fellow on the cover? Never. All the porn for women have the same general object of women's desire...
So, we can clearly see that while men have taste across the board and, as I said, for every kind of woman there is a man who is attracted to her somewhere, for men like me, there are not going to be women who are dreaming about me.
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Nature didn't reserve the troll look for men. No, I cannot show you a woman who has made that statement, because no one ever has around me (and I don't even know who Golem is). But I can say there are women who also date ugly men.
As I made clear in the OP, these women "settled" for the ugly guy and like him INSPITE of his appearance. Men like me will always be attractive "despite" of what we look like, and not, amongst other things (repeat, AMONGST OTHER THINGS THEN LOOKS) because of how we look.
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There are men who are morbidly obese, disfigured, or just unattractive who can't find anyone to date them. What makes you think you have that market cornered?
Why do you think I used the plural of man (which is men) during the entire op? Men (again, in plural) like that will never be found "hot" to any woman, while women who are like that will have men who do indeed find them initially (AGAIN, "INITIALLY") attractive because of those qualities.
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Doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Heck, he's married and his wife is no looker and had money when she met him.
Again, as I said before, she likes him inspite of what he looks like, and will never been found holistcally attracive by any woman.
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I am always grateful for positive attention. I referred to the piece of meat attention that you implied we should be grateful for because you kids don't get any.
Please notice in the op were I said, IN BOLD LETTERS, I am not just talking about "piece of meat attention" but also positive attention and get back to me.
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I still doubt I am going to think of these scores of men it has never happened to. I guess that makes me incapable of comprehending your plight. Off to the shallow yonder I go.
There all also scores of people who will never think of starving people in Somalia when they get angry that they can't buy a new sports car. Same thing. People taking what they have for granted. Human nature I suppose.
See, the problem unattractive men have is that they feel entitled to and wronged by not getting BEAUTIFUL women. It's not like they give the time of day to women looking like them. Heck, I can't get any man I want, either. It's not the end of the world. It's called reality! We all have some limitations of some nature.
The point is some man will be attracted to a woman, ANY WOMEN...while the same cannot be said for men. Also, I never said "beutiful women" I couldn't care less about looks...but even the ugliest woman on Earth will not look at men like me and think "he's hot" the way the ugliest woman on Earth will have at least a few men looking at her and thinking "man is she fine"
Questions....would you date a woman who was just as unattractive as you are (if they exist, that is )?
How can you say for sure that women don't have the same issues, or that every woman will find a man who is attracted to them? What are the bases of these facts as you present them?
What are you going to do to improve your situation?
I can prove that. If you look at porn for men (porn DVDs) they have catagories from fat to skinny, old to young etc. This is a window to what men find attractive, and it is all over the place.
those are usually fetishes the women in those pornos aren't your typical overweight woman they're grossly obese well over 300 pounds and the men don't usually date women who look like that.
Me too - I mean I really tried but all the bolding and underlining and capital letters started getting to me - i just kinda started looking at the words but not reading them
i got the general idea as you've said it on several other threads - no one looks at you - what is it that you would like me to think about?
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