I need some advice!!!! (date, wife, how to, married)
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I have a BF of almost a year. We get along great. I feel like I have met my match for life. But here is the kicker. He has been devioced for 7yrs. He has two loving children 11 & 9. They get along with me to a certain point and then the oldest just knows how to push my buttons. I have a bad rep and a bad past. But my BF knows of all this. We both want to move forward and start living our lives together. He only sees the children every other weekend and he is an okay father but he has room for improvment. I tell you I am not a saint. But we want a family someday and we would like his children to accept me. His ex-wife has already remarried and has two more children, a newbie and a 3yr. So now it's the brother, mother, ex-wife, and children making him decide between your kids or this nasty GF! He hates the fact that they are tring to control his life of who he is allowed to date and allowed to be around the children. The most devistating thing I did was go behind both parent backs and create a myspace for the oldest child when it was causing a problem between the mother and daughter. I thought should would only use it over at her fathers. But come to find out his oldest has two myspace accounts, a facebook, yearbook, and is on twitter... I have had myspace for 3yrs and now I am not allowed to say a status because the oldest checks it and relays it back to her mother. It's very sad to see him love again after 7yrs and have a live-in GF and now his family is telling him to choose your kids over the weekend or your live-in GF! He is devestated. When it came down to use talking about this and how we could work with it. The only solution we came up with is that I would have to stay at my friends house everyother weekend. "It's just not fair." he replays. We are adults and his mother and his ex-wife is still treating him like he is a child.
Please give me some feed back I would love to know some advice and suggestions...
The most devistating thing I did was go behind both parent backs and create a myspace for the oldest child when it was causing a problem between the mother and daughter.
And your an adult? If you did that to my child you would be out the door. Sorry what you did was awful.
You may not like my comment, but to post anything on the interenet about a child is beyond horrific.
A young girl in Missouri commited suicide because an adult posted hateful comments about her.
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