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My take is that if a person is willing to cheat, they'll find a way to cheat regardless if they're allowed to go to girls/guys nightout. So why not let them have some fun and if something happens it was going to happen eventually anyway...Better to get it out of the way rather than wasting years with the person.
I encourage it, couples need their own friends and their own time out with those friends. Not that I would encourage strip clubs and being in nightclubs till 2:00AM every weekend, but there is nothing wrong with them stepping out with the girls once in a while for a few cocktails. It's healthy for her, and in the end, healthier for your relationship.
As for her, she probably would have found a way to cheat anyway. The club was just an opportunity that doesn't present itself every day. If she's looking for it, she can find trouble at the local laundromat just as easily as inside a bar.
My girls night out is usually a girls night in. We make margaritas, get drunk, and someone usually has some drama or situation that leads to hours of yapping and laughter. Wouldn't have it any other way.
We don't go out because we're not looking for men, nor do we want to have to worry about where one of us went or if someone spiked our drinks. And if someone passes out in the bathroom, we know it's clean enough to leave them on the floor.
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My girls night out is usually a girls night in. We make margaritas, get drunk, and someone usually has some drama or situation that leads to hours of yapping and laughter. Wouldn't have it any other way.
We don't go out because we're not looking for men, nor do we want to have to worry about where one of us went or if someone spiked our drinks. And if someone passes out in the bathroom, we know it's clean enough to leave them on the floor.
I like this. Someone always ends up getting others to dance, too. Then you know we're good and looped.
I never had a problem with it, as I went out with the guys often. Its the trust part of the relationship...if broken then she's gone. In a previous sales job, it was not uncommon to go to a strip club. I was up front about it with women I dated, some were okay with it (as best they could as long as I didnt smell to much like a stripper when I got home), others not so much. However most of the folks I was taking out were just looking to get their tires pumped up so the wife would ride the bike later.
I know of a guy who was a part time male stripper,he told me hes done sexual things with thousands of married women over the course of a few years
Scary
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