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Old 08-31-2009, 04:56 PM
 
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so I 100% support the idea that if a woman can't find a good man, she would be better off just being single. But I am just wondering how those good sinlge women deal with their sex life? I would assume they don't want to sleep around b/c we are here talking about traditionally good women.

any thoughts?
I don't want to be accountable to anyone right now; I like my freedom. I also don't do the multiple partner thing. So, I'll search for someone in the same position with the same mindset. There are plenty out there.
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Old 08-31-2009, 06:49 PM
 
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I just deal with it by having a very active imagination. BOB would likely be an uninvited guest at this point. Ask me again in 6 months.
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Old 08-31-2009, 08:20 PM
 
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I don't want to be accountable to anyone right now; I like my freedom. I also don't do the multiple partner thing. So, I'll search for someone in the same position with the same mindset. There are plenty out there.

yes, I don't want to depend on guys to make me happy - sexually or emotionally...but sex does seem need a man to make it work lol...really don't want to get any disease and I can't do sex without love...


I never tried BOB, maybe I should give it try? anyone wants to give some suggestions on how to choose a good BOB? does it work? or what about a hand massager or other options?
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Old 08-31-2009, 09:20 PM
 
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yes, I don't want to depend on guys to make me happy - sexually or emotionally...but sex does seem need a man to make it work lol...really don't want to get any disease and I can't do sex without love...


I never tried BOB, maybe I should give it try? anyone wants to give some suggestions on how to choose a good BOB? does it work? or what about a hand massager or other options?
You need to find a different forum, dear.
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Old 09-01-2009, 11:29 AM
 
Location: GA
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Old 09-01-2009, 11:45 AM
 
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yes, I don't want to depend on guys to make me happy - sexually or emotionally...but sex does seem need a man to make it work lol...really don't want to get any disease and I can't do sex without love...


I never tried BOB, maybe I should give it try? anyone wants to give some suggestions on how to choose a good BOB? does it work? or what about a hand massager or other options?
you are just horny....the silver bullet always worked for me... when I was single
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Old 09-01-2009, 12:37 PM
 
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yes, I don't want to depend on guys to make me happy - sexually or emotionally...but sex does seem need a man to make it work lol...really don't want to get any disease and I can't do sex without love...
I guess I'm confused as to why people think they have to be in a full blown, 100% committed, time consuming relationship in order to have love. You can be monogamous, unattached and love enough to be intimate.
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Old 09-01-2009, 01:07 PM
 
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so I 100% support the idea that if a woman can't find a good man, she would be better off just being single. But I am just wondering how those good sinlge women deal with their sex life? I would assume they don't want to sleep around b/c we are here talking about traditionally good women.

any thoughts?
Well, IMHO the options are kind of clear: 1) no sex (or a toy, if you don't want to involve people) 2)find a boyfriend or something "serious" 3)have occasional sex. Just choose the one that's good for you and enjoy your life.
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Old 09-01-2009, 01:14 PM
 
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I am divorced, single and intend to stay that way for a while. I am a "good woman" as you say, who is fortunate to have a close friends who are in the same position. Friends I adore and who adore me and who happen to be men. Need I say more?
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Old 09-01-2009, 01:20 PM
 
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I guess I'm confused as to why people think they have to be in a full blown, 100% committed, time consuming relationship in order to have love. You can be monogamous, unattached and love enough to be intimate.
well its what most people want...especially when you get older....playing the field and dating just isnt fun anymore.

I am 38 years old and have been in and out of relationships...i just got married last monday for the first time...i am so happy...i couldve hope for anything else
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