Would you let your spouse have a fantastic one-night stand? (people, free)

[PA2UK]

Marriage is not about allowing or refusing to allow your spouse to do anything. My husband has free will and can do what he wants but I know he would not want to sleep with anyone else except me... just as I have no interest in sleeping with anyone else but him.

[bobman]

she does. EVERY night !!

Originally Posted by jtur88

What if your spouse had a chance for a one night stand with the absolute knock-out person of their dreams.

[Mooseketeer]

No. He wants to sleep with someone else , he can find someone else permanently.

Infidelity is one of my big "non negotiables" in my relationship. When you love someone and are happy with them you don't seek to hurt them, destroy them and put a roll in the hay with someone else first.

It shows utter contempt and a completed disregard for the person you are supposed to love.

Trust is the most important thing in a relationship. When that's gone you have lost everything. Including your self respect if you allowed it to happen and condoned it. I would have enough respect for him to leave my husband if I ever wanted someone else. Because the day I want to sleep with someone else will be the death toll of our relationship and the harbinging of the end of love for me.

Of course it is not about "allowing" him anything as he is free to chose to sleep with whomever he wishes. As long as he doesn't expect me to be still there when he returns...

[picklejuice]

Besides, why do I want a Cadillac when I already have a Ferrari in the 'garage'? [/quote]

Good answer. Possibly dishonest, but a good answer none-the-less.

[Nutz76]

Originally Posted by jtur88

What if your spouse had a chance for a one night stand with the absolute knock-out person of their dreams. Porn star, movie celebrity, whatever.

Would you say "Sure, Honey, go for it. You only live once, very few people will ever have this kind of a chance, it's my gift to you."

Or would you refuse?

Not unless I was enjoying the same benefit. Even then I'd only go so far as to say maybe.

[Rakin]

Originally Posted by jtur88

What if your spouse had a chance for a one night stand with the absolute knock-out person of their dreams. Porn star, movie celebrity, whatever.

Would you say "Sure, Honey, go for it. You only live once, very few people will ever have this kind of a chance, it's my gift to you."

Or would you refuse?

You should have added the Robert Redford "Indecent Proposal" movie twist of at least $1 million for a 1 night no strings with your SO.

Who would do it if a $1M bank check was on the pillow the next morning ?

[JustJulia]

Originally Posted by Rakin

You should have added the Robert Redford "Indecent Proposal" movie twist of at least $1 million for a 1 night no strings with your SO.

Who would do it if a $1M bank check was on the pillow the next morning ?

"Have a good time, honey!"

[pitt_transplant]

No freakin way. If he even mentioned it he would be in for a serious ball flick.

[missymomof3]

Originally Posted by JustJulia

"Have a good time, honey!"

Yeah baby! LOL

[DONNIEANDDONNA417]

nope!