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I have a good frined of mine who lives in Connecticut, we lived on the same block until I moved to Florida and we have always kept in touch and both do to this day
But for the past 4 or 5 years he has been questioning his sexuality and it has really been eating away at him
He says he as always been interested in women but he has had gay rumors swirling around him virtually his entire life. He had these rumors in school and now deals with them at his job daily.
When we were 14 he confided in me that he enjoyed cross-dressing for the sexual arousal he got out of it, though he hasn't done it in about 4 years he admits he still has occasional thoughts about it
Around the time he stopped secretly cross-dressing he told me had been experiencing a strange new atraction to men, he wasnt sure if it was physical or not he just knew some sort of attraction was there. He still seems interested in dating and having sex with women though
And then about 3 years ago he got into transsexual pornography and has almost but abandoned looking at naked women to looking at male-to female transsexuals. He still had sexual interest in women though and was still having some sort of attraction to men
He met a transsexual at a club once and had intercourse with her and enjoyed it. He has had sex with women as well but not men
He has had several crushes on men but never acted on them and when he was propositioned by gay men for sex he always rejected it. Even though he has had sex with feminine transsexuals, sex with a masculine male doesnt do anything for him or so he told me.
Honestly he feels like he has to label himself either straight gay or bi. And its really getting to him now. What do you guys think, is my friend gay?
Sorry to have to say it, but he sounds gay to me. For example ask him what tool would he use to cut a piece of copper pipe with for it to be perfectly straight? Answer: A tubing cutter. Rugged
Better yet, ask him where he would prefer to lay a pipe.
No kidding! Ask him if he would rather go see a action movie or a drama/love story also? Sorry married guys, you are forgiven because you didn't have a choice!
Dude, I think you're attempting to toss the oldest trick in the book at us CD folks:
Your "freind" is you, right? You should just be honest with us; we're actually a pretty open-minded bunch.
Um...no its not me. Nice try though. If it was me I would have said so
this is obviously above your head, and apparently your reading comprehension skills are severely lacking. its ok, you have recess to catch up.
its funny how you accuse me of turning this on you when in fact you made it personal and accused me of being a homosexual, having gone to public school (why would that matter?), etc etc. now i allegedly get "man crushes".
no, no i dont. but as of late that phenomena has made its way into popular culture. i was using that reference to frame the discussion about the varying levels of attraction between non-gay identified men...
but i think this is too complex of an issue for you.
finito.
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Originally Posted by Jays1983
Interesting how you can take a complete failure on all levels of reading your comprehension and try to turn it around on me. Just admit, you can't read and are far too obsessed with figuring out your own sexuality that you feel the need to shift your agression towards me.
And no, I do not get "man crushes" because I am not attracted to men. Perhaps your "man crushes" aren't as innocent and benign as you would like to think?
this is obviously above your head, and apparently your reading comprehension skills are severely lacking. its ok, you have recess to catch up.
its funny how you accuse me of turning this on you when in fact you made it personal and accused me of being a homosexual, having gone to public school (why would that matter?), etc etc. now i allegedly get "man crushes".
no, no i dont. but as of late that phenomena has made its way into popular culture. i was using that reference to frame the discussion about the varying levels of attraction between non-gay identified men...
but i think this is too complex of an issue for you.
finito.
Ahhhh, you still mad?
I've made my point and backed it up time and time again with mine and the OP's quotes. I've proved that you read on the same level as a half retarded second grader with anger problems.
And I'm not accusing you of being a homosexual, you've just made it abundantly clear that you are in fact a homosexual in some respect, closet or not, so it was crucial that I know that so I can understand where you are coming from.
I've made my point and backed it up time and time again with mine and the OP's quotes. I've proved that you read on the same level as a half retarded second grader with anger problems.
And I'm not accusing you of being a homosexual, you've just made it abundantly clear that you are in fact a homosexual in some respect, closet or not, so it was crucial that I know that so I can understand where you are coming from.
No kidding! Ask him if he would rather go see a action movie or a drama/love story also? Sorry married guys, you are forgiven because you didn't have a choice!
lol that made me laugh. i know for a fact he would rather see the action movie, hands down
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Answer: A tubing cutter. Rugged
