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Never let morons dictate what or who are. Ever. There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin as long as it is what YOU want. Be true to yourself and if others deride you for it then it is their problem not yours. Not that you need to discuss your sex life anyway , it is after all your own business.
People are judgemental by nature. We live in a society which derides anyone who dares to be different than the so called accepted social "norm" . Just enjoy college, have fun your own way and when the time is right for YOU then it will be the right time. Having sex simply because of societal pressure is not a good idea .
Personally I think you should be proud of yourself to be strong enough to have resisted pressure to do something you might not have been quite ready to do. Nothing wrong in that at all, in fact you should be commended.
Ask yourself whether you would ever want to be friends with cretins who judge you on your sexual experience ? Does the views of those shallow, vapid idiots really count. I would say their views are not only irrelevant but utterly uninteresting.
Sex is wonderful, it'f fun , it's pleasurable and it can bring a great intimacy and a sense of belonging. Do not ruin it by being pushed into it .
I think you'll find the right person for you is not going to be one who will jump into bed with the first guy either...
As the gr8 Rocky Balboa stated ..u hang out with nice people u get nice friends ..u hang out with smart people u get smart friends ..u hang out with yo-yo people u get yo-yo friends ..thats simple mathematics ..as for being a virgin nobody wants to be a virgin all their life ..if u remain to be so for some preference per se ..u'll be a sinner for god wouldnt want u to go against the law of nature for some silly reason whatever it may be .. well im u're in college ..im 27 and still a virgin lol .. but the thing is that sex is more than just getting physically high ..its an intimate relationship valued for life ..and to share such a relationship with someone u love is truly pleasurable and mind u its a gr8 feeling .. so brother dont lose it to someone who doesnt understand its worth ..rather stay a virgin till u get the pie well baked ..lol .. just be optimistic ..enjoy life and reserve it for one fine day ..trust me u wont regret if u use the right tool at the right time ..cheerios !
As the gr8 Rocky Balboa stated ..u hang out with nice people u get nice friends ..u hang out with smart people u get smart friends ..u hang out with yo-yo people u get yo-yo friends ..thats simple mathematics ..as for being a virgin nobody wants to be a virgin all their life ..if u remain to be so for some preference per se ..u'll be a sinner for god wouldnt want u to go against the law of nature for some silly reason whatever it may be .. well im u're in college ..im 27 and still a virgin lol .. but the thing is that sex is more than just getting physically high ..its an intimate relationship valued for life ..and to share such a relationship with someone u love is truly pleasurable and mind u its a gr8 feeling .. so brother dont lose it to someone who doesnt understand its worth ..rather stay a virgin till u get the pie well baked ..lol .. just be optimistic ..enjoy life and reserve it for one fine day ..trust me u wont regret if u use the right tool at the right time ..cheerios !
Isn't that very common in the middle east and Asia?
Sex is very hyped up in the West. It's almost one of the key things people do in their lives.
Jumpman comes off a very different and sexually active culture. Hyper-active, even. The problem, hence.
If they try to pressure you , grab either a pistol , shotgun , or gas with a lighter.I had this issue with former friends when I was a teen up to 24. They were just screwing like rabbits. Now all are burdened with strings of babies and get jealous of me having held out until 25 with my ex. Trust me , it's not all it's cracked up to be. A waste of time IMO. Besides , there are too many of us on Earth as it is , IMO!! Keywords being IMO!!
So basically, I'm a male in college, and was pretty open about being a virgin. I honestly never thought it was such a big deal, but now I regret it because it seems like people automatically judge me because of it. Even girls, whenever I talk to them, talk to me as though its the worst thing ever. I'm just trying to understand what is so wrong about it? I've never been into the whole one-night stand thing because, for me, it feels awkward (and in a way, its risky) to sleep with someone you hardly know. I'm not one of those I'll only have sex after I'm married people, but I'd need to at least be in a relationship with the person before I do that, so I don't get what's wrong with that? I don't judge people who are into hooking up, so why do they judge me?
Because in these troubled times in which we are living, bad is called good, and good is called bad.
The only sin is on the people who try to make you feel bad because you are not ready for sex yet.
Maybe they regret being with everyone and anyone, the VD they caught, the babies they had before they were ready, the fact they did it drunk and didn't remember her or his name the next day...
These are 'some things' you are missing not having sex right now.
I agree, sex is important but when you are ready. It's not for when others tell you to do it.
It's also private and a gentleman (or gentle lady) keeps such 'details' as true love encounters to himself or herself. Those who 'brag the most' do it least (or do it badly!!)
If I (was a whole lot younger and) had started dating you, I would really like that you hadn't been out having indescriminate sex with every female you'd ever met. It would tell me that you had been wanting to share that first time with someone special and if it was to be me it would really make me feel special. You have a lifetime ahead of you to do this so waiting a little now should not in any way be a bad thing. The lucky lady that you chose will really appreciate that you waited and you can "hone your skills" with her.
Being a virgin ain't so bad. Hell, a lot of people have no choice.
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..cheerios !
