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When we started dating I was either in the gym or at school. I was 135lbs. I am now 145lbs and work full time with a side job. apparently this weight gain is so much that be isn't attracted to me anymore. He still loves me like before, bu how can I really have a relationship with him without sex? My sex drive is much bigger than his. When I try to initiate, he's too busy. When he initiates it happens (obviously). The last two times we had sex were within the last two months and he never finished with me. On top of hardly ever having sex, now I'm not even getting the benefit. What is his problem? Will it REALLY be solved by 10 lbs? What happens when I get pregnant or age?
When we started dating I was either in the gym or at school. I was 135lbs. I am now 145lbs and work full time with a side job. apparently this weight gain is so much that be isn't attracted to me anymore. He still loves me like before, bu how can I really have a relationship with him without sex? My sex drive is much bigger than his. When I try to initiate, he's too busy. When he initiates it happens (obviously). The last two times we had sex were within the last two months and he never finished with me. On top of hardly ever having sex, now I'm not even getting the benefit. What is his problem? Will it REALLY be solved by 10 lbs? What happens when I get pregnant or age?
10 pounds? Are you kidding me? I have some buddies that probably poop that much in a day!LMAO........... Edit sorry OP!
It sounds like a total joke. I am getting fit again for basic military training, so imnot really worried about that as much as I want to know if it's really a weight problem or if there is a much deeper issue.
It sounds like a total joke. I am getting fit again for basic military training, so imnot really worried about that as much as I want to know if it's really a weight problem or if there is a much deeper issue.
You know, it's very possible for a relationship to fizzle because one partner has lost their attraction toward the other. Has nothing to do with you, you can be a perfectly good looking girl. It just happens.
It sounds like a total joke. I am getting fit again for basic military training, so imnot really worried about that as much as I want to know if it's really a weight problem or if there is a much deeper issue.
If he's freaking out over 10 pounds, I'd say there's a much deeper issue. You can't stay looking young and fit forever. Sure there some very nice looking women in their 70's, but lets face it, the weight may be the same on the scale, but it's not in the same place on the body.
He doesn't sound like much of a catch to me. I'm not saying that guys should just sit back and be happy if their woman balloons up to 300 pounds, but TEN?
It sounds like a total joke. I am getting fit again for basic military training, so imnot really worried about that as much as I want to know if it's really a weight problem or if there is a much deeper issue.
Yes there is a deeper problem! Any man that would be willing to withhold sex because of 10 pounds is a jack$ss! I mean, that's one way that you could work off those 10 pounds! And I mean this seriously!
You should look at the situation with a bright red flag. If a mere 10 lbs makes that huge of an impact at his end then just imagine what he'll be like down the road when your bodies change (and his will, too).
Are YOU okay at 145 lbs? That's all that matters. And, personally, I don't think 145 is heavy at all. To Hell with him!
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Are you kidding me? I have some buddies that probably poop that much in a day!LMAO...........
Edit sorry OP!
You can't stay looking young and fit forever. Sure there some very nice looking women in their 70's, but lets face it, the weight may be the same on the scale, but it's not in the same place on the body.
