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And that is EXACTLY why you desired him. He didn't put you on a pedestal and lived for himself first and foremost.
Ladies, this is exactly what happens when you follow your emotions/desires without listening to what's between your ears. I bet the OP's husband has a chinstrap "beard", looks thugged up, and all that jazz. Basically the alpha/player who took her for a ride.
And that is EXACTLY why you desired him. He didn't put you on a pedestal and lived for himself first and foremost.
Ladies, this is exactly what happens when you follow your emotions/desires without listening to what's between your ears. I bet the OP's husband has a chinstrap "beard", looks thugged up, and all that jazz. Basically the alpha/player who took her for a ride.
So typical in this day and age.
No facial hair. And he's actually 31 so I am not sure what you were trying to say when you brought up the age factor.
Yep, I am 25 and I honestly believed he was it for me. We were good together in the beginning but things went sour after he got out of the Marine Corps. He decided to take all his frustrations on me.
I wish I had done the same when I got out of the Army. I wish I'd been as ****ty to him.
Just know that you are not the only one. Some of us married the same exact guy, different face, different name, and felt just as bad when reality came crashing down. Now you'll be aware of the warning signs if Mr. Similar comes around. The good thing is that now your life will be different. He, however, will most likely remain exactly the same.
Well, we went to our counseling and he told the therapist he was NEVER in love with me and he was sweet to me when he needed someone to talk to.
We got home and he called me a stupid b**** which didn't hurt me as much as it made me angry because I've been the breadwinner for 7 months now. He has no job.
Needless to say I feel used. If he wasn't in love with me, why did he marry me? I never put pressure on him. If he felt like we weren't right for each other why did he lead me on?
I told him to go live with his mom because I don't want him living with me. It seems to me he just wants a free ride.
So now we're getting divorced. We have no children, just some furniture we paid for together and a dog.
I don't even know where to start... I don't think I can afford a lawyer.
If I were you , I'd live up to my name and kick his ass like only an army chick could!! Maybe after two or three Upward Bicycle Kicks he'd get his affairs in order. Then finish him with a kiss of death. Shame on him for wasting your love!!
I was packing up my stuff a few years ago and I came across a pile of old drivers licenses.
In some states I lived in, they just cut the corner but handed back the old one to you. I think now they are digital until you get your new one.
Anyway...I found my drivers license from my first marriage. The picture on it looked like an 85 year old woman with dark circles under my eyes, ragged hair, and puffy cheeks.
I found my drivers license taken moments after leaving the court room winning my divorce and getting my maiden name back.
I had the biggest smile on my face, my color was bright, my cheeks were rosy, my hair was glossy, and I remember begging the license photographer to let me sneak in a thumbs up in the picture.
Putting those two pictures side by side.......trust me when I say, liberation and independence is totally a cause for PARTY!
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thumbs up in the picture.
