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I have a guy friend of mine who waited till very recently to lose his virginity. He's 25. He's not unattractive or socially awkward, just a deer in headlights when it comes to sex.
When we met last year, he was extremely weird when it came to sex (he actually went home when I threw on Game of Thrones for a party I invited him to, the sex scenes freaked him out), mostly because his parents suck and tried to shield him from sex as much as possible, thinking it was going to turn him away from family/studies (they're very puritanical and conservative). After deciding he was tired of being married to his right hand (trust me, he was), he left his parents house and moved to NYC. This was in May. Despite his inadequacies with women and sex, he is otherwise a big sweetie, very respectful and is a perfect gentleman, though he often put women on the pedestal.
I just recently found out that not only has he lost his virginity.....he's juggling about THREE separate partners (that I know of), has been invited to and actually GOES to crazy fetish parties with weird people and has basically stopped searching hard for a girlfriend because he's more or less satisfied with having friends with benefits. That's gross.
I'm also starting to see that even though he's still a gentleman, he does not have the same respect for women. This was the kind of guy that would actually take his time when communicating he was attracted to someone, even though that never really worked out for him.
This is no way for someone to be introduced to sex. He hasn't even had girlfriend yet, and I was kind of heartbroken to hear him say "screw relationships, sex is awesome". A nice guy like him shouldn't be on the path to becoming a sleazeball, he should be keeping himself pure and reserved until he finds a good girl to match up with. He can leave the sleazy **** for people like us who have had enough bad experiences with sex that screwed us up.
I tried to talk to him about this, but he actually became quite miffed when I pressed him to stop with the sex and just hold out for a decent girl, not someone who's willing to shag him just for the sake of fun. I have a feeling all of this sex is going to make him a bad person.
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