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Old 02-04-2010, 07:31 PM
 
Location: South Florida
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Old 02-04-2010, 07:32 PM
 
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LOL.

But I flogged more when I was married. It was like having access to steaks but not having the desire to cook them up. So you just dined on hamburger all the time.
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Old 02-04-2010, 07:34 PM
 
Location: South Florida
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...lol, in light of my recent interest in a married man...

On a more serious note, here's an interesting list:

1.Check his ring finger. It may seem obvious, but this is the first thing you should do to determine if a man is single. Look for a ring or the tan line from a ring. That's a dead giveaway if he removed his wedding band.

2.Assess the situation. If he appears to be out with some buddies on the prowl for ladies, it's likely that he's single. If he's hanging back and seems more reserved, he may be in a relationship.

3.Trust your intuition and your gut. If the man is married you'll pick up on hints, at least subconsciously.

4.Watch what he's watching. Single men are usually more likely to look around the room for women. There's a sense of availability and openness about them. Unavailable men may be more reserved.

5.Separate the single men from the men who are looking to cheat on their wives or girlfriends. This isn't the easiest task.

6.Find out more about the guy. Figure out who he hangs out with. If he's flirting just with you, it's likely he's single and interested. But, if he's flirting with a ton of women he may be a guy out to cheat on his woman.

7.Ask a friend if the man is single. It's not the most clandestine way of figuring it out, but it saves you a lot of time wondering.
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Old 02-04-2010, 07:39 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I'd say look at his shirts.


If he looks like he has eaten Chef Boyardee recently.

He's single.
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Old 02-04-2010, 07:44 PM
 
Location: South Florida
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JSizzle, for me that's what makes the idea of getting re-married a little scary for me. You know that saying, something like, for every beautiful woman there's a man who is tired of f***ing her...

Chowhound...you know I always notice that the REALLY nicely put together guys (color coordinated, flattering cut, etc.) have wives or girlfriends who are *responsible* for the nicely put together look, haha...

(or they're gay..)
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Old 02-04-2010, 07:48 PM
 
Location: Kuwait City, Kuwait.
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...lol, in light of my recent interest in a married man...

On a more serious note, here's an interesting list:

1.Check his ring finger. It may seem obvious, but this is the first thing you should do to determine if a man is single. Look for a ring or the tan line from a ring. That's a dead giveaway if he removed his wedding band.

2.Assess the situation. If he appears to be out with some buddies on the prowl for ladies, it's likely that he's single. If he's hanging back and seems more reserved, he may be in a relationship.

3.Trust your intuition and your gut. If the man is married you'll pick up on hints, at least subconsciously.

4.Watch what he's watching. Single men are usually more likely to look around the room for women. There's a sense of availability and openness about them. Unavailable men may be more reserved.

5.Separate the single men from the men who are looking to cheat on their wives or girlfriends. This isn't the easiest task.

6.Find out more about the guy. Figure out who he hangs out with. If he's flirting just with you, it's likely he's single and interested. But, if he's flirting with a ton of women he may be a guy out to cheat on his woman.

7.Ask a friend if the man is single. It's not the most clandestine way of figuring it out, but it saves you a lot of time wondering.
8. Ask him if he is single.
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Old 02-04-2010, 07:49 PM
 
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JSizzle, for me that's what makes the idea of getting re-married a little scary for me. You know that saying, something like, for every beautiful woman there's a man who is tired of f***ing her...

Chowhound...you know I always notice that the REALLY nicely put together guys (color coordinated, flattering cut, etc.) have wives or girlfriends who are *responsible* for the nicely put together look, haha...

(or they're gay..)
We didn't get along and I don't like messing around when angry or if I'm sullen. It makes the lil sizz die.
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Old 02-04-2010, 07:49 PM
 
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That made me lol.

If they hit on me, they are probably married/taken. That's how it usually works for me.
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Old 02-04-2010, 07:51 PM
 
Location: Tri-State Area
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...lol, in light of my recent interest in a married man...

On a more serious note, here's an interesting list:

1.Check his ring finger. It may seem obvious, but this is the first thing you should do to determine if a man is single. Look for a ring or the tan line from a ring. That's a dead giveaway if he removed his wedding band.
Nonsense - a fair number of married men do not wear rings.


2.Assess the situation. If he appears to be out with some buddies on the prowl for ladies, it's likely that he's single. If he's hanging back and seems more reserved, he may be in a relationship.
Again, more nonsense. Did it ever occur to you that the guy hanging back is selective in his potential choice? I never went to a bar with needing a bunch of my friends with me to hold my hand as I approached a girl. Is his mommy there too?

3.Trust your intuition and your gut. If the man is married you'll pick up on hints, at least subconsciously.
Yes, ladies, please trust your intuition and gut - most of you will not be able to discern between the married guy and the single guy.

4.Watch what he's watching. Single men are usually more likely to look around the room for women. There's a sense of availability and openness about them. Unavailable men may be more reserved.
Wrong again, all real guys are aware of their surroundings, including the women. Just because your married, doesn't mean men are blind.

5.Separate the single men from the men who are looking to cheat on their wives or girlfriends. This isn't the easiest task.
It's damn near impossible.

6.Find out more about the guy. Figure out who he hangs out with. If he's flirting just with you, it's likely he's single and interested. But, if he's flirting with a ton of women he may be a guy out to cheat on his woman.
Wrong again, if he flirts with a ton of women, he's keeping his options open. One of them will go for it, leading to a successful foray.

7.Ask a friend if the man is single. It's not the most clandestine way of figuring it out, but it saves you a lot of time wondering.
Which friend are you asking? His?, in which case the friend will back him up - that's what wingmen are for. Yours?, if you can't tell, what makes you think yours will?

This list feels like it came out of a magazine like Glamour. Jeez, gotta do better than this.

8. There's a 50-50 chance he'll be honest. For better odds, ask for his home phone and dial it on the spot. Chances are if he's married, the missus will be home to pick up the phone.
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Old 02-04-2010, 07:53 PM
 
Location: South Florida
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Dorrans, point taken...

Spinx, hmmm, the last single (supposedly) men to hit on me were a 50 and then 60 yo, a couple weeks ago at the beach. They more than likely thought I was 19....which I get all the time. The men I attract lately are very young, very old or married....

Frmly, I agree with pretty much everything you said. Im just making fun of myself a lil' bit...
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