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Just don't do it. Or else you'll be known as the woman who boffed Biff in the supply closet. Your other female co-workers will keep you at arms' length. The other men will think you're open to their advances, too. Every single promotion or benefit you get will be scrutinized by the rest of the office because you slept with the boss--even if you actually haven't.
If you're really that hot and bothered, just wander down to the grocery store and look for some good looking guy pushing a cart, stroll up to him and say, "Hey, Wanna?"
Ive been lusting over this guy at work since he started here last year, I work with all guys mostly and Im a divorced female (33) and there are a few guys here that are married but they talk to me all the time and I can see that they want more than talk...but wont say it. I mean come on people you can tell when someone wants you but cant say anything because of their current status and due to the fact that they dont want to risk a government job....what is one to do. (in my case) If they only give me more hint , I will go for it and wont say a word to anyone.
I see you're aiming to make you parents/family proud!
It's amazing how many people think that just because you're a woman you can get laid by snapping your fingers. It really isn't that easy. Especially if you want more than sex.
To the OP: don't listen to the party poopers. If he cute, go for it. I have decided after the New Year that relationships are the person in the relationship's problem. I am tired of being alone just because I have had the integrity to stay away from married men. Most of them complain about how unhappy they are anyway.
If a woman wants her husband to not stray, she needs to handle her business, it' not your problem.
Don't f*ck guys at your job. You're a woman so it's easy for you to pick up. Go to the grocery store or gym or Target or Costco or the gas station to get your fill. You'll be better off.
Do not do anything with a married man. He will just be using you, and you will be hurting a family. His wife did not do anything to you, and she does not deserve to be hurt. Why would you ever consider helping a selfish jerk cheat on his wife? Yes, he will probably do it anyway, but you don't want to be part of that. If he would cheat on her, he is not worth your time.
It's amazing how many people think that just because you're a woman you can get laid by snapping your fingers. It really isn't that easy. Especially if you want more than sex.
To the OP: don't listen to the party poopers. If he cute, go for it. I have decided after the New Year that relationships are the person in the relationship's problem. I am tired of being alone just because I have had the integrity to stay away from married men. Most of them complain about how unhappy they are anyway.
If a woman wants her husband to not stray, she needs to handle her business, it' not your problem.
The reality is that others do not share your opinion--'relationships are the person in the relationship's problem'. People talk and judge and I don't think the day will come that that will change.
I am still asking myself why I should care if Tiger Woods had 1,000,000 affairs---I certainly don't but this is headline news. I don't care that John Edwards was unfaithful--never thought much of him, wouldn't vote for him but really don't care if he cheated on his wife.
And so on and so forth.
In general I think that those who are married should conduct themselves honorably and if they do not then that indicates there could be many other issues in relating to them. Married men that complain about their wives will also complain about 'the new woman'---seems like that is the nature of the beast.
I know that I couldn't handle the complexities that would accompany a relationship with any coworker.
Do not do anything with a married man. He will just be using you, and you will be hurting a family. His wife did not do anything to you, and she does not deserve to be hurt. Why would you ever consider helping a selfish jerk cheat on his wife? Yes, he will probably do it anyway, but you don't want to be part of that. If he would cheat on her, he is not worth your time.
Morality is relative, so why is cheating an issue?
The issue for the OP should be her professional reputation, being able to work comfortably in the workplace.
wow what a stern quote ! ..love it Julia ..go girl lol
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I have decided after the New Year that relationships are the person in the relationship's problem. I am tired of being alone just because I have had the integrity to stay away from married men. Most of them complain about how unhappy they are anyway. 
