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I'm game for a first date kiss - but have had my share of bad first dates that I left thinking 'please don't try and kiss me'. Always managed to just get a hug with those, thank goodness. I'm pretty good at avoiding it if I don't want it.
I once had a guy tell me (after going for the kiss on the second date) that he wanted to the first date but couldn't read me, and that if a guy doesn't go for it by the third he's a pu**y. I tend to agree.
You think? If you have done your comfort building and escalation properly, kissing or no-kissing in the first few dates does not matter that much;however, as part of escalation, kissing should have happened already.
On the other hand, if you don't escalate, then at the end of date, you try to kiss, I would be very surprised it's not uncomfortable for both or you don't get a peck on the cheek.
3 dates?????? Way tooo long my friend. At the beginning of the first date, I will hug and kiss on the cheek. The end of the first date is a hug and kiss on the lips...short or long depending how things went.
You can't and shouldn't put an artificial timeline on the first kiss, it should come naturally to both parties. Not forced and not marked on the calendar after X amount of dates.
I had a wonderful first date, once. We ended it with a kiss. My face was covered with drool. He didn't notice me wiping my face. YUCKY! Needless to say, all his calls were on ignore.
You can't and shouldn't put an artificial timeline on the first kiss, it should come naturally to both parties. Not forced and not marked on the calendar after X amount of dates.
disagree completely, I feel that after a certain amount of time if there is no comfort in terms of physical distance (which holding hands and kissing signifies) then either there is no chemistry or the girl/guy is not that into the other person or they are not compatible in other ways. No point dating someone who isn't very much into you and does not express that clearly. I'm not saying they should sleep with me but there should be a strong signal and a kiss signifies that.
I had a wonderful first date, once. We ended it with a kiss. My face was covered with drool. He didn't notice me wiping my face. YUCKY! Needless to say, all his calls were on ignore.
Gross! That sounds like a major slobfest. Did you ask him for a mop and bucket after it was over?
You can't and shouldn't put an artificial timeline on the first kiss, it should come naturally to both parties. Not forced and not marked on the calendar after X amount of dates.
Leave it up to my friend, Coolhand to post a perfect response.
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Did you ask him for a mop and bucket after it was over?
Spot on!
