Sleeping Beds: king, queen, or full size? (guy, separate, issues)
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We started off with queen and recently moved up to a king. I love the additional space and I sleep much better now. My parents slept in a full sized bed all their lives, I don't know how they did it, that's too close for me, especially in the summer when it's warm.
Besides, sex can be had anywhere, anytime, doesn't have to be the bed.
We have a queen and are upgrading to a king, he says I kick him out of bed in my sleep (big fibber tehe) we have a little before getting settled and comfy to sleep snuggling and then it's you on your side me on mine!
The OP sounds strange to me. With my ex, we slept in a king size bed, but we never had any argument about who should be moving. We met at the center and we would easily find a comfortable position to stay in close contact and fall asleep together. Those were good times...
I'm 6', he's 6'3 and we're both all legs and arms, so we end up hurting each other if the bed is any smaller. For the first year or so we lived together, we had a queen and it was MISERABLE.
We've got a full sized bed at the moment (left over from before we moved in together) but it's going to be hitting the road soon. We are both sprawlers and it just doesn't work. The only reason we've held out this long was because we didn't know if we'd have to move for school in the fall. Since we'll be staying put, the bed has to go. We're going to get a queen because that's the biggest size that will fit in the bedroom.
Believe it or not, every night we get into the same argument:
"Hey, Come over here baby, why are you all the way over there?"
"Well, why don't you come over here? Why do I have to be the one to come over there all the time?"
"Let's meet in the middle then".
"No, you come over here".
"Why are we arguing over this?"
"No, we are not arguing over anything".
"Right, whatever".
"yeah you're right, whatever".
"Goodnite".
"Goodnite".
Everybody ends up sleeping on their side of the bed, no cuddling, nothing.
Silly, right? But I have to honest, this is what happens almost every night. I'm thinking this bed is ruining my relationship and I'm thinking of switching to either queen or full size to reduce all these unnecessary arguments.
What's your experience and/or opinions on this?
We have a King size bed, although we are both small people.
I know the way my husband likes to fall asleep - "the spoon position". He likes me to snuggle up behind him and hold him.
Since I know what he likes, I do what he likes.
Maybe you should ask your SO how he likes to fall asleep and if it fits you, just do it.
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I like having the space to move around not worrying about elbowing anyone in my sleep! 
