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Old 04-17-2012, 02:02 PM
 
Location: Jersey
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I am a pagan, I openly identify with the water element of the earth. I feel most at home and attuned with the ocean. I feel drawn to and a deep need to associate with loggerhead turtles, that come on the sand on the coast of north carolina and lay their eggs. I am from North Carolina originally. My favorite activity in all the world is having a spiritual communion in nature while sitting on an empty beach at dawn.

I currently live in NJ. The beaches here are atrocious. People are so abusive to the nature, they are over crowded and gross. I feel no communion with nature. I just feel suffocated, like I do everywhere else.

My question is, for a couple of years I have felt depressed and unmotivated. I feel unhappy like I am always missing something in my life, despite having a fulfilling marriage and a wonderful child. Do you guys think it could be because I am so far from my ocean?

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Old 04-17-2012, 02:08 PM
 
Location: Sierra Nevada Land, CA
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IMy question is, for a couple of years I have felt depressed and unmotivated. I feel unhappy like I am always missing something in my life, despite having a fulfilling marriage and a wonderful child. Do you guys think it could be because I am so far from my ocean?
Could be something deeper.

More than the ocean.

Perhaps your spiritual path needs to be in connection to the One who created all.
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Old 04-17-2012, 02:10 PM
 
Location: Log home in the Appalachians
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Start a cleanup program of the beaches in your area. Sometimes doing something of that nature can be very fulfilling, it gives you a purpose and a sense of fulfillment.
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Old 04-17-2012, 02:12 PM
 
Location: Jersey
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Start a cleanup program of the beaches in your area. Sometimes doing something of that nature can be very fulfilling, it gives you a purpose and a sense of fulfillment.
Perhaps, but I would only be able to stand the people if I went in the spring or fall.

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Old 04-17-2012, 02:15 PM
 
Location: Victoria, BC.
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I am a pagan, I openly identify with the water element of the earth. I feel most at home and attuned with the ocean. I feel drawn to and a deep need to associate with loggerhead turtles, that come on the sand on the coast of north carolina and lay their eggs. I am from North Carolina originally. My favorite activity in all the world is having a spiritual communion in nature while sitting on an empty beach at dawn.

I currently live in NJ. The beaches here are atrocious. People are so abusive to the nature, they are over crowded and gross. I feel no communion with nature. I just feel suffocated, like I do everywhere else.

My question is, for a couple of years I have felt depressed and unmotivated. I feel unhappy like I am always missing something in my life, despite having a fulfilling marriage and a wonderful child. Do you guys think it could be because I am so far from my ocean?
I do...I could never leave my beloved Pacific...

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Old 04-17-2012, 02:18 PM
 
Location: Jersey
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I do...I could never leave my beloved Pacific...
This picture makes me so very happy.
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Old 04-17-2012, 02:18 PM
 
Location: Log home in the Appalachians
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Perhaps, but I would only be able to stand the people if I went in the summer or fall.

Anything that you do to help towards healing Mother Earth is helpful regardless of how little it is, it is a step in the right direction and sometimes that's all it takes, is one person taking one step in the right direction, and who knows others may take notice and start doing the same thing, it's always a possibility.osay
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Old 04-17-2012, 02:23 PM
 
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I am a pagan, I openly identify with the water element of the earth. I feel most at home and attuned with the ocean. I feel drawn to and a deep need to associate with loggerhead turtles, that come on the sand on the coast of north carolina and lay their eggs. I am from North Carolina originally. My favorite activity in all the world is having a spiritual communion in nature while sitting on an empty beach at dawn.

I currently live in NJ. The beaches here are atrocious. People are so abusive to the nature, they are over crowded and gross. I feel no communion with nature. I just feel suffocated, like I do everywhere else.

My question is, for a couple of years I have felt depressed and unmotivated. I feel unhappy like I am always missing something in my life, despite having a fulfilling marriage and a wonderful child. Do you guys think it could be because I am so far from my ocean?

ETA sorry for the spelling mistake in the title, it should be alternatively
No. That stuff isn't real.
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Old 04-17-2012, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Log home in the Appalachians
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No. That stuff isn't real.

That's only your opinion.. And you're entitled to it but that doesn't necessarily mean everybody else is going to agree with it.
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Old 04-17-2012, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Jersey
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No. That stuff isn't real.
What stuff? The ocean? Nature? NJ? People? Depression?
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