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Old 11-26-2007, 06:14 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville,Florida
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Do you have a fear of dying ? Does age have any bearing on this ? Is there anything comforting about death ?
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Old 11-26-2007, 06:18 PM
 
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Heck ya I fear dying! I think a lot of it does have to do with age but I also think that where you are in life spiritualy can have a lot to do with it too. For example my husband is not scared of dying and I think part of it is his strong testimony of the afterlife.
I used to work with elderly, many whom where dying, and many of them were very at peace with dying and some even longed for it.
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Old 11-26-2007, 06:35 PM
 
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I think I have a fear of leaving those that depend on me, right now my wife and my dog. In the future, my wife and kids and any pets. I have no fear for myself losing life, only the thought of helplessness at not being around to support my wife, kids and pets.
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Old 11-26-2007, 07:09 PM
 
Location: conover nc
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[quote=dreameyes;2094499nk I think that where you are in life spiritualy can have a lot to do with it too. [/QUOTE]

I agree with this. No I don't fear it and at times look forward to it. I long to have peace.
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Old 11-26-2007, 07:21 PM
 
Location: The Netherlands
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No, I do not fear death. Do i like it that things die?
Nope, but I see the necessity of death.
Without death there would be no change possible.
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Old 11-26-2007, 07:27 PM
 
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Default Not a simple 'yes' or 'no'

Such a simple, straight forward question, but the answer is not as simple to express.

I personally don't fear death. Death will come for us all eventually .. unless Jesus comes first . So it's not something I fear, but it's something that's expected. It's not something I look forward to or wish to rush, but there is a sense of anticipation to be free from this world and explore heaven beyond.

The when or how may be a bit disconserting to dwell upon, but even then I don't necessarily fear death. I have my faith and belief in Jesus that he will comfort me and care for me, until my last breath. I've witnessed several close family members die due to various situations (cancer, auto accident injuries to name two) and in each case, I just felt God's presence. So I know he'll be with me at my appointed time.

I do worry, although I shouldn't, about my family I would leave behind. I wonder what sort of legacy I've left for my children. If I've had enough time to teach them the really important things to know about their faith and this world. I'd worry most for my wife, leaving her alone that way. But, God is faithful and loves them more than I do, so I take comfort that he will care for them and see their needs are met even if I'm not around.
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Old 11-26-2007, 07:58 PM
 
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No I do not fear death at all, the thought of looking into face of Jesus does not scare me. It comforts me to know that I will someday.
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Old 11-26-2007, 08:07 PM
 
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Why fear dying? Some people are scared of living.
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Old 11-26-2007, 08:26 PM
 
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Nope! Kind of look forward to it. Sounds bad I know, But younger then 40 and have buried parents, and siblings, and really dont want to bury any more, I'd rather be next.
I dont know what to expect when I die, I just think the suffering is over.
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Old 11-26-2007, 11:59 PM
 
Location: Camberville
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Why fear dying? Some people are scared of living.

So true.

I do not fear death. I am comforted in knowing that it will all be over and there is nothingness. I actually am more afraid of the pain of death (stupid, I know :P) than life actually ending.
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