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Originally Posted by otterhere
As with so many posts, it's difficult to know where to put this one, but I figured I might find a good number of people here to whom this applies. If you're going to be alone (and I mean really alone) for the holidays this year, how do you cope with that, and how you plan to spend them? This especially applies to those who are alone not just on those days, but every day. Will you actively avoid them? Casually ignore them? Celebrate them traditionally? Celebrate them non-traditionally? Share your plans with us here.
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They say the holiday season causes depression in a population who lives alone.
Hey, but the holiday is just another “ day”!
Please, do not let the society to put a pressure on how you are suppose to spend these “ days” of your life.
#1 rule : Stop watching TV altogether or at least DVR the cute “ happy families getting together for holidays” commercials- it is all about marketing and selling!!! ( cards, gifts, booze, food)
Unrealistic expectations even for the most families to achieve: well decorated cute house on a leafy street with well groomed pets and a bunch of smiling children with loads of gifts, expensive new cars, on vacations, etc
#2 : You are not alone!! Below is the link to gov statistics- more and more people live alone now, so it is as normal living alone as is having a family living with you!
https://www.census.gov/newsroom/fact...cb16-ff18.html
#3 After you shake off the chains of marketing “ expectations” and a bit of preparation for your “just me” celebration - ENJOY another day off:
Leisurely, gourmet? breakfast- maybe even back in bed after you made it?
Watching a fun broadway musical video or another of “ YOUR” choice? In the morning?
Take a dog or YOURSEF for a nice stroll somewhere beautiful?
A little stretching low impact exercise if YOU feel like it?
Cooking or baking something interesting, unusual ? Or learn to try cooking? ( leftover for lunches could be good)
Visit another single person you know for a coffee?Wine? Or not!
Sing out loud with YouTube artists!? Dance with them- nobody is watching!!!
Fire in the fireplaces are wonderful to watch for hours. If you do not have one- locate the most expensive hotel nearby with one and enjoy the mellow quiet of the hotel lobby with the book or magazine- pretend you are on a business trip- just dress well to look the part.( library is better but closed on holidays- we need to change that!!!)
Anyway- you get the idea, pumper yourself with attention and the small pleasures of life!
If you like and can- volunteering for others is a good idea, but not for everyone.
Religious people would probably enjoy the services.
I have no problems with you organizing your house on holiday- you will get an immediate satisfaction and feel good from it instantaneously - just please- start small and do not overdo it- it is a holiday after all! ( Smiley here)
So many things to do, so little time!!!