Seattle or Dallas? (Kirkland: house, neighborhoods, live)

[Ira500]

...And the classic Seattle driver is the one who is at the 4 way stop and says " No, you go ahead." The other driver, also a Seattleite, sits there and says "no, you go ahead." Until there's a line of cars behind them.

[LookingtoLeave]

I notice a lot of people in Seattle dislike the weather b/c it affects their moods (understandably so) and wish for a sunnier climate. Keep in mind, the hot, humid summers here in TX will also affect your mood. They are very oppressive and last a long time. I can count numerous times where it was still 90 and nearing November-which imo is insane. It was even 92 this past January!

It's very hard to spend extensive lengths of time outside, and as someone who actually is healthy, it can make me and many others very worn out and just plain tired. Personally, it makes me moody and depressed. Kids can be affected as well. Older people get heat stroke and have to spend a lot of time indoors as it remains pretty hot until the sun begins to set, which can be after 8 pm. I think it's awkward to be cool in the summer, like I hear it is in Seattle, but at least you can put on a light jacket and be fine. In TX, you can't go naked-but wish you could. I'm not exaggerating when I say, you will start sweating w/in minutes of walking outside, and when stepping right out of the shower.

So, yes TX has plenty of sun, but just keep in mind the negatives that come with it and the same for Seattle and its gray. Just base your decision on which you could tolerate more. And oh yeah, like the other poster said, Dallas=flat.

[Lakewooder]

Dallas and Texas have friendliness, can-do enthusiasm, pride and independent spirit that no other place can match - the opposite of S.A.D.

[LookingtoLeave]

TX in general-yes, but I have heard there is similar snobbery in Dallas.

[toughguy]

Originally Posted by Lakewooder

Dallas and Texas have friendliness, can-do enthusiasm, pride and independent spirit that no other place can match - the opposite of S.A.D.

Not to mention over the top pride and hubris. Take a look at “I’m Proud of Texas — How ‘Bout You?” – Governor Rick Perry to see what I am talking about.

Do you even know what S.A.D. is? It's a seasonal disorder that affects a minority of the population, and it doesn't necessarily preclude one from having pride, friendliness and independance.

[jmueller8]

Wow, having lived in both cities, my opinion is that Dallas and Seattle are like night and day (or day and night, heh heh). I'm a Midwesterner born-and-raised, so I was used to a polite but friendly kind of people. Texans seem both polite and VERY friendly, but the people were really the only thing I liked about living there. My quick opinion: I love Seattle for the weather (cooler), the scenery (less concrete) and the attitude (liberal). I didn't care for Dallas very much, but I have friends who still live there who really like it. As for the dating scene... I'd say it would be easier to meet people in Dallas than Seattle, but that's coming from someone who's a bit shy.

Good luck with your decision!

[seattlerain]

Originally Posted by Lakewooder

Dallas and Texas have friendliness, can-do enthusiasm, pride and independent spirit that no other place can match - the opposite of S.A.D.

Keep in mind that there are people who have Spring and Summer SAD. There is also something known as Reverse SAD.

Seasonal affective disorder (SAD)

[jwb123]

I haven't read this whole thread - but I could never live in Dallas.

[Noodle2U]

I have lived in both places and would hands down say Seattle, for a multitude of reasons. It honestly depends on your interests.

Dallas:
If you arent offended by forced religious comments, opinions, discussions, pressure and recruiting - then Dallas migght be your best option. If environmentally neglectful attitudes dont offend you, then Dallas might be your best option. If you prefer your female friends to be very made up (big hair, fake parts, loads of makeup) and your male friends to wear pressed denim, cowboy everything and the occassional manicure - then Dallas might be your best option. Cost of living is much, much cheaper - but cultural exposure is greatly limited. There is no views to be had in Dallas and outdoor activity consists of getting in and out of your air-conditioned car/house/work/school.

Seattle:
Winters and summers are temperately mild, but you face 9 months (give or take) of steady drizzle (not pouring, but not misting). The overcast skies can make some people a bit blue. However - an ideal time to take in all the cultural indoor activites. You wont want to be inside during the simply gorgeous summer months. Everyone has a desire to be outside and active. This is a much looser, free-thinking, tolerant culture. Environmentally enthusiastic and active would best describe this city. No littering, no fur-coats, no gas guzzling Hummer types....etc. Fabulous public transit options for the masses (not just the downtrodden).

[BandC]

Originally Posted by Noodle2U

I have lived in both places and would hands down say Seattle, for a multitude of reasons. It honestly depends on your interests.

Dallas:
If you arent offended by forced religious comments, opinions, discussions, pressure and recruiting - then Dallas migght be your best option. If environmentally neglectful attitudes dont offend you, then Dallas might be your best option. If you prefer your female friends to be very made up (big hair, fake parts, loads of makeup) and your male friends to wear pressed denim, cowboy everything and the occassional manicure - then Dallas might be your best option. Cost of living is much, much cheaper - but cultural exposure is greatly limited. There is no views to be had in Dallas and outdoor activity consists of getting in and out of your air-conditioned car/house/work/school.

Seattle:
Winters and summers are temperately mild, but you face 9 months (give or take) of steady drizzle (not pouring, but not misting). The overcast skies can make some people a bit blue. However - an ideal time to take in all the cultural indoor activites. You wont want to be inside during the simply gorgeous summer months. Everyone has a desire to be outside and active. This is a much looser, free-thinking, tolerant culture. Environmentally enthusiastic and active would best describe this city. No littering, no fur-coats, no gas guzzling Hummer types....etc. Fabulous public transit options for the masses (not just the downtrodden).

This IS sarcasm isn't it??????