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Old 07-28-2010, 11:41 AM
 
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So how is it like? I know this sounds stupid. But i have to ask. I worry about what will i do if i loose my job. I will loose my place and have no where to stay eventually, no money eventually, I mean how would I survive?
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Old 07-28-2010, 12:05 PM
 
Location: Buffalo, trying to leave
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So how is it like? I know this sounds stupid. But i have to ask. I worry about what will i do if i loose my job. I will loose my place and have no where to stay eventually, no money eventually, I mean how would I survive?
Unemployment benefits. You'll have 99 weeks to figure out how to find another job. That's more than enough time if you're trying.
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Old 07-28-2010, 01:27 PM
 
Location: Knightdale
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The first couple of weeks suck - you either spend them getting around to all the things around the house or you mope. Then you buckle down and make (or revise) a budget. Figure out what needs to be cut (phone data plans, cable, eating out etc), and contact the ESA to set up your unemployment benefits. Then update your resume and get to job hunting!

It can be stressful and discouraging at times, but when DH and I were laid off (at different times) we made it work. Picking up odd jobs like retail or servers helps, and temp work can be great for plugging holes - even if its just for a couple of weeks.
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Old 07-28-2010, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Buffalo, trying to leave
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It can be stressful and discouraging at times, but when DH and I were laid off (at different times) we made it work. Picking up odd jobs like retail or servers helps, and temp work can be great for plugging holes - even if its just for a couple of weeks.
If I were in HR I would immediately have sympathy for you and know that you are a hard worker.

What a few on this board don't understand when they say that they refuse to take work that is below their previous high standard is that they are slowly becoming very difficult to employ. Even if you are just waiting table, washing dishes, data entry, it's not exactly rocket science, and it's nothing to brag about, but it shows HR professionals that even though to were laid off, that you can, and want to take on the responsibility of working still.

If I were interviewing someone and saw that they had nothing on their resume for over 50 weeks, my question would be, "What have you been doing to keep yourself ready for your next career?" If the answer was anything that didn't include volunteering, getting an education, or working menial jobs I would rush the rest of the interview. If they were working in a terrible job, despite the fact that they were indeed qualified for much better work, I would automatically assume that they were extremely responsible and smart.
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Old 07-28-2010, 02:59 PM
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if i got laid off unemployment would pay all my bills and leave me some left over

id probably chill for a few months, hang on my porch with my dog, grills some burgers and drink vodka

being UE sounds awesome now
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Old 07-28-2010, 03:38 PM
 
Location: South Carolina
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It's actually initially very devastating. I didn't see it coming & I was crushed to be let go (they did away with my position). I have collected UE but it's alittle more than half of what I made. Luckily, I think I finally have a positive job prospect but it's taken 15 months. I was lucky in that my husband's salary squeaked us by but then he became unemployed 5 mos ago & things have been extremely stressful & bills have piled up. When you become unemployed you can def check any ego at the door. There's a ton of competition out there & just not enough jobs to go around. Needless to say it's a very humbling experience.
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Old 07-28-2010, 06:38 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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if i got laid off unemployment would pay all my bills and leave me some left over

id probably chill for a few months, hang on my porch with my dog, grills some burgers and drink vodka

being UE sounds awesome now
It's probably a lot of people on UE just like you-"Not trying to find a job
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Old 07-28-2010, 08:13 PM
 
Location: mancos
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if i got laid off unemployment would pay all my bills and leave me some left over

id probably chill for a few months, hang on my porch with my dog, grills some burgers and drink vodka

being UE sounds awesome now
well enjoy, it's us employers who cant collect and wont be around when your 99 week UE types run out of free living. me i' m working cause i have to so i can eat and my work history will look better than yours.good luck grasshopper
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Old 07-28-2010, 10:30 PM
 
Location: Spokane via Sydney,Australia
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It's probably a lot of people on UE just like you-"Not trying to find a job
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well enjoy, it's us employers who cant collect and wont be around when your 99 week UE types run out of free living. me i' m working cause i have to so i can eat and my work history will look better than yours.good luck grasshopper
and apparently you can't read sarcasm when you see it - get a GRIP people
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Old 07-28-2010, 10:41 PM
 
Location: USA
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The longer people are on UE the worse there chances are going to be. When I was at the end of my 6 months, thank god, employers actually started refusing to unemploy me because of the gap in my employment. Lose of experience was their reasoning.

So anyone on unemployment, that is skilled in programming or have certifications in the field. Come to the west coast. We have jobs for you here. Though you have to be open to java or C++. One programmer I met couldn't find work in silicon valley because he refused to program in java.Must really hate it.
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