Is DC Dating "Nirvana" for White Women? (how much, lawyer)
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White women have the world at the palm of their hands. Why?
1. They are coveted by their fellow white brothers and men of color. Having a white female as arm-candy is a status symbol. It means you are on the Up and Up in society. Magazines and television equate the female beauty standard with Whiteness. Most of the famous women movie stars are white. Who can blame men of color for gravitating to the "pretty" white lady. You are dating the culture standard.
Oh yeah, if you stack a white woman next to the black women and a Latina women and they all have serious 36-24-42 curves with the big booty...the white female will be picked 9 out of 10 by men of color. For some reason, a curvaceous white woman has a higher value...maybe because most white females have thin, poorly-shaped behinds? I don't know. I am a booty-loving guy myself but I will take a woman of any color with serious curves. I don't understand why white female derrieres are more prized than others.
2. White women can get away with one-night stands and romantic flings. This goes back to my theory that white women love black men, Latino men and Asian men as boyfriends. As marriage material???? Not so much. Older generations of white people would not welcome a "Look Who's Coming to Dinner" scenario. It's safer to marry a white guy who is an accountant than a black man who is a hi-tech entrepreneur. Can't afford to **** off Mom & Dad and the surviving grandparents.
3. White women have white privilege. Just like their white male counterparts, they can bank on some advantages down the road: quicker job promotions, higher salaries, connections to the white business community, less driving tickets, more chances to fix serious F Ups, better lawyers etc. If you are a black female or Latina...it's one strike and you are out. Women of color remain far behind white women in terms of wage growth, educational opportunities and have a higher percentage of incarceration rates. For some reason, white female voices are more respected in business, political and academic circles. Feminism has done some wonderful things for the female sex; it's just that the beneficiaries tend to be educated, professional-class white females. My opinion, of course.
So let's not break out the violin for the poor white females in DC. If you want a pity party: talk to single black females and single Asian-American males. They have it FAR worse on the dating scene than the white people.
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Coldbliss,
If you stack a sister and a white chick, side by side with the same body. This brothers is taking the sister. I have done the interracial thing a few times in the past but um, I love black women. Nothing like the swagger and style of a sophisticated sister. No disrespect to the white women out there, I think most of you are mad sexy as well.
S/N: Another Southern observation but downsouth, it seems that the brothers always go after the big white chicks instead of the ones with nice shapes.
White women have the world at the palm of their hands. Why?
1. They are coveted by their fellow white brothers and men of color. Having a white female as arm-candy is a status symbol. It means you are on the Up and Up in society. Magazines and television equate the female beauty standard with Whiteness. Most of the famous women movie stars are white. Who can blame men of color for gravitating to the "pretty" white lady. You are dating the culture standard.
Oh yeah, if you stack a white woman next to the black women and a Latina women and they all have serious 36-24-42 curves with the big booty...the white female will be picked 9 out of 10 by men of color. For some reason, a curvaceous white woman has a higher value...maybe because most white females have thin, poorly-shaped behinds? I don't know. I am a booty-loving guy myself but I will take a woman of any color with serious curves. I don't understand why white female derrieres are more prized than others.
2. White women can get away with one-night stands and romantic flings. This goes back to my theory that white women love black men, Latino men and Asian men as boyfriends. As marriage material???? Not so much. Older generations of white people would not welcome a "Look Who's Coming to Dinner" scenario. It's safer to marry a white guy who is an accountant than a black man who is a hi-tech entrepreneur. Can't afford to **** off Mom & Dad and the surviving grandparents.
3. White women have white privilege. Just like their white male counterparts, they can bank on some advantages down the road: quicker job promotions, higher salaries, connections to the white business community, less driving tickets, more chances to fix serious F Ups, better lawyers etc. If you are a black female or Latina...it's one strike and you are out. Women of color remain far behind white women in terms of wage growth, educational opportunities and have a higher percentage of incarceration rates. For some reason, white female voices are more respected in business, political and academic circles. Feminism has done some wonderful things for the female sex; it's just that the beneficiaries tend to be educated, professional-class white females. My opinion, of course.
So let's not break out the violin for the poor white females in DC. If you want a pity party: talk to single black females and single Asian-American males. They have it FAR worse on the dating scene than the white people.
Good lord. The same post every time. I'd like to see documentation and statistics on your claims. You make a lot of broad assumptions which may or may not be true, but I'd simply like to see confirmation.
For confirmation you can just go to any nightclub. It's really not that hard.
In DC, white girls have the upper hand because they're fewer in number. The presence of Asian, Latina, Indian, black, etc. girls ensures that whatever advantages white girls normally enjoy are magnified even more.
I saw a fine group of blondes walking into the Buddha Bar the other night.
Oh God, Buddha Bar is awful.
Granted, I'm not single so perhaps my perspective is a bit different...but even for downtown DC lounges that place is just dreadful. Overpriced, pseudo-pretentious, bad food. And it has to be one of the most dimly lit lounges I've ever visited.
Sorry for the mini-rant, I just really didn't like that place.
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Originally Posted by 14thandYou
Oh God, Buddha Bar is awful.
Granted, I'm not single so perhaps my perspective is a bit different...but even for downtown DC lounges that place is just dreadful. Overpriced, pseudo-pretentious, bad food. And it has to be one of the most dimly lit lounges I've ever visited.
Sorry for the mini-rant, I just really didn't like that place.
I have never been inside. I just happen to be in the area and saw a group of drunken blonde chicks walking there. They were pleasant on the eyes though.
For confirmation you can just go to any nightclub. It's really not that hard.
In DC, white girls have the upper hand because they're fewer in number. The presence of Asian, Latina, Indian, black, etc. girls ensures that whatever advantages white girls normally enjoy are magnified even more.
I go into nightclubs. I see women of all different ethnicities and no evidence that one group is the center of attention and another is ostracized. If anything, I've noticed the white women tend to be a little frumpy compared to the more sophisticated-looking Asian, Indian, Hispanic, and black women. Not always, but if I see frumpy looking women who didn't put a lot of thought into their evening presentation, they're usually white.
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