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IF your mom seems dead set to disrupt the ceremony and is against the wedding in general, I would definitely say to drop her from the invite list. You are old enough to make your own life decisions, so if she is not in agreement with your choices and will not support you, then you must decide if you want to include her and her drama in your life.
If she were only upset and "grudgingly" accepting your decision, I would say to suffer through her lack of approval with hope of future reconciliation. Since she is actively against your decision and is working against you, then I say leave her home.
IF your mom seems dead set to disrupt the ceremony and is against the wedding in general, I would definitely say to drop her from the invite list. You are old enough to make your own life decisions, so if she is not in agreement with your choices and will not support you, then you must decide if you want to include her and her drama in your life.
If she were only upset and "grudgingly" accepting your decision, I would say to suffer through her lack of approval with hope of future reconciliation. Since she is actively against your decision and is working against you, then I say leave her home.
How about finish school first, then go get your own place and become an independent adult before marrying? If I were your mother, and you were living with me and contemplating marriage after having gone back to school due to losing your job, and no apparent thought of where you two will live, I'd be against it too. I mean, as a parent, I didn't really expect to have my 28 year old son back living with me again, and I sure as heck don't want his "new wife" here with me.
How about finish school first, then go get your own place and become an independent adult before marrying? If I were your mother, and you were living with me and contemplating marriage after having gone back to school due to losing your job, and no apparent thought of where you two will live, I'd be against it too. I mean, as a parent, I didn't really expect to have my 28 year old son back living with me again, and I sure as heck don't want his "new wife" here with me.
How about finish school first, then go get your own place and become an independent adult before marrying? If I were your mother, and you were living with me and contemplating marriage after having gone back to school due to losing your job, and no apparent thought of where you two will live, I'd be against it too. I mean, as a parent, I didn't really expect to have my 28 year old son back living with me again, and I sure as heck don't want his "new wife" here with me.
I am probably not inviting my mother. I have stopped speakign to my father a while ago. It is your day, and you should be surrounded by people happy for you. Don't invite her if you have doubts.
And why would a freshly married couple want to live with the other mom?
I would move in with the other mom, get on my feet, move out. Marry then.
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