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I'm wondering if some of the people posting here have any idea how much the girls they think they like actually weigh... If you like tall girls or women that aren't fragile, then you probably like heavy girls.
She looks SO BEAUTIFUL in that pic at that weight. She lost the weight and is now "model anorexic" - take a look:
Well, my goodness. Tell us how you really feel. Is she really that disgusting? I think she's quite pretty. Whether you are attracted to her body type or not is one thing, but she's not even overweight. At 5'10" and 165, her BMI is 23.7, which is over a point away from being overweight. It's one thing to only pursue women with a certain look, but it's another thing to say hateful, hurtful things about someone who is perfectly healthy and attractive and who probably wouldn't give you the time of day, anyway.
Adi, many 5'10" women at 165 lbs. would be slim and trim. It depends on bone structure. Most 5'7 women at 125 lbs. would be too skinny to have curves. Been there, done that. And you don't know if the boobs on the first one are real. One can't predict by height and weight alone what a woman's figure will look like. A fine-boned person will look chubby at a higher weight, while a medium-heavy-boned person will look trim and hot at that weight.
Oh, nothing beats getting yelled at for my past immaturity while suffering through unemployment depression . I'm gonna ask permission to shut this thread down. I had a bad past on this forum, but have reformed. Please, I beg for forgiveness, I'm a different person today.
But, I wanted to say that a lot of it, when comparing photos, has to do with the "pose" of the girl, don't you think? If the second, heavier girl was stretching upwards and arching her back like the first, thinner girl, she would look much much thinner. She's very pretty and really not "disgusting" or fat.
And the photo GR8CAT posted.....ummm if we're gonna say obese or fat, here is the place to say it.
But, I wanted to say that a lot of it, when comparing photos, has to do with the "pose" of the girl, don't you think? If the second, heavier girl was stretching upwards and arching her back like the first, thinner girl, she would look much much thinner. She's very pretty and really not "disgusting" or fat.
And the photo GR8CAT posted.....ummm if we're gonna say obese or fat, here is the place to say it.
I take back my grave mistake in saying she is disgusting. I'm human, and just like a few others I too made stupid judgments on this thread a while back. Over time our perceptions & situations change.
Right now, all I'm focused on is scraping up whatever is left of my shattered life and moving on. Please, do a small favor and don't remind me of my past horrors during these hard times.
I admit being harsh in that post, but in real life I would never say such things to women. But its my strong feeling that I am attracted primarily to skinny & fit girls. Never really had "the eye" to see plumpness as gorgeous. I accept that I am still a young immature 21 year old chap. Lets see if my preferences change in my late 20's on maturing. But I highly doubt it. Unlike most women, I am a plump guy myself, and in my mind there is nothing better than cuddling with a petite athletic women. You are blessed with "the eye" to see beauty in plump women, while I am not. I admit, 5'10" with 166 lb and 24 % body fat is pretty attractive, but 5'7" and 124 lb with 20 % body fat sounds even hotter and more womanly. Given the choice though, I would go with #1.
Real life situations may differ due to other factors. Woman # 2 could be a wonderful lady with a fantastic attitude, high level of academic achievement, and a loving individual who truly cares for her man which will make her a better candidate for relationships in my book. But this thread depends solely on body shape, not the other factors. Bad looks =/= failure in relationships.
Wow, dude. You're delusional.
You remind me of a friend of mine from several years ago. The guy was probably 150lbs overweight and always complained about being single. I felt bad for him because I thought he had a hard time meeting girls because of his weight.
Anyway, all of that changed when we all went out to a bar one night. A really pretty girl who was probably about 20lbs overweight was looking at him all night. She was a very pretty, well-dressed girl who was a little heavy but who carried her weight very well. I nudged and winked at my friend and told him to go talk to her.
He had the audacity to make some comment about "No, no fat chicks!" and to then high-five his buddy. They then sat there and trash talked that poor girl for at least 10 minutes.
Oh, nothing beats getting yelled at for my past immaturity while suffering through unemployment depression. I'm gonna ask permission to shut this thread down. I had a bad past on this forum, but have reformed. Please, I beg for forgiveness, I'm a different person today.
Poor thing
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. I'm gonna ask permission to shut this thread down. I had a bad past on this forum, but have reformed. Please, I beg for forgiveness, I'm a different person today.
