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with regards to co-habitating, I don't think NJ is a "common-law" state...
regardless, you're correct in the sense that if she lives with you & then breaks up, she can take you to court over "shared expenses", or "became accustomed to a certain lifestyle", or some other nonsense.
as for how they dress, what all men must realize is that women aren't dressing to impress you, they're dressing to impress themselves & other women. They could care less what you or I think. When she tells you she loves you, remember this: women have a different sense of the truth. Their truth is based on the moment, and on their feelings only. Around here, they know nothing of integrity or true honesty. Not a thing. They live in a state of constant dishonesty -- with their constant attempt to look like someone else, be like someone else, etc. -- that they have no reality that can be defined. This is why women constantly say one thing and do something else entirely, and get angry when someone tries to hold them to their word.
Proof of this is in their lack of concern for being on time. They don't give a rat's ass about you or your time. The only thoughts running through their heads have to do with their own comfort. Long ago, this constant 'say one thing and do another' behavior used to be called "a woman’s right to change her mind." Now let's call it what it really is: you're full of **** and your word means nothing. A life of lies and deceit makes them like this.
NJ/NY women are only concerned with one thing -- Comfort. If something is difficult, they will spend endless amounts of time and money to avoid it. YOUR money. YOUR time. We, as men, don't mind doing things that are uncomfortable. We can adapt to situations these women will never accept. This is another reason why local women always claim "there are no good men". We can sit in the blazing sun and fix our cars, or sweat our asses off painting. We can do this over and over again without complaining and bitching. We can maintain our belongings, even when it means doing so compromises our TV time or social agenda. Not the women around here -- they will throw something out before they clean, fix, repair, or tune it up. They live for the disposable, instant gratification they have forced us men to create.
This feeds two things: their obsession to shop, and the avoidance of anything that compromises their comfort. By throwing out what you work endlessly to provide, they get to put on the lies, and go buy more disposable crap. There are some guys I know who are some of the fortunate few who have found a truly good woman, who doesn't live her life in a state of terminal self-centered-ness. I always tell them to be truly grateful. I guess I'm describing a southern girl, but they don't like Yankees. And mail-order brides are out of the question, so I'm probably going to remain single...
with regards to co-habitating, I don't think NJ is a "common-law" state...
regardless, you're correct in the sense that if she lives with you & then breaks up, she can take you to court over "shared expenses", or "became accustomed to a certain lifestyle", or some other nonsense.
as for how they dress, what all men must realize is that women aren't dressing to impress you, they're dressing to impress themselves & other women. They could care less what you or I think. When she tells you she loves you, remember this: women have a different sense of the truth. Their truth is based on the moment, and on their feelings only. Around here, they know nothing of integrity or true honesty. Not a thing. They live in a state of constant dishonesty -- with their constant attempt to look like someone else, be like someone else, etc. -- that they have no reality that can be defined. This is why women constantly say one thing and do something else entirely, and get angry when someone tries to hold them to their word.
Proof of this is in their lack of concern for being on time. They don't give a rat's ass about you or your time. The only thoughts running through their heads have to do with their own comfort. Long ago, this constant 'say one thing and do another' behavior used to be called "a woman’s right to change her mind." Now let's call it what it really is: you're full of **** and your word means nothing. A life of lies and deceit makes them like this.
NJ/NY women are only concerned with one thing -- Comfort. If something is difficult, they will spend endless amounts of time and money to avoid it. YOUR money. YOUR time. We, as men, don't mind doing things that are uncomfortable. We can adapt to situations these women will never accept. This is another reason why local women always claim "there are no good men". We can sit in the blazing sun and fix our cars, or sweat our asses off painting. We can do this over and over again without complaining and bitching. We can maintain our belongings, even when it means doing so compromises our TV time or social agenda. Not the women around here -- they will throw something out before they clean, fix, repair, or tune it up. They live for the disposable, instant gratification they have forced us men to create.
This feeds two things: their obsession to shop, and the avoidance of anything that compromises their comfort. By throwing out what you work endlessly to provide, they get to put on the lies, and go buy more disposable crap. There are some guys I know who are some of the fortunate few who have found a truly good woman, who doesn't live her life in a state of terminal self-centered-ness. I always tell them to be truly grateful. I guess I'm describing a southern girl, but they don't like Yankees. And mail-order brides are out of the question, so I'm probably going to remain single...
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Just one thing about the co-habitating - they can still yell RAPE and you know the rest.
There's Plenty of "angles" of what's wrong my friend.
I'm off to have some lunch then will go out for a walk in this great weather.
it seems that this board attracts the very small percentage of women who don't have the typical "NJ/NY female" traits, but the fact is that this area cultivates those types of personalities we guys can't stand.
all of the single women I meet these days say they don't want to 'waste time' because they're too busy 'living life to the fullest'... the translation being, they're too busy to put in the effort to be a good romantic partner themselves, because of preoccupation with living up to the so-called "standards" of success, as defined by insidious media messages and social competition... negative cultural forces that create these incredibly picky requirements in the first place. After all, humans are complex creatures and it's easy to find a million things to pick at, or compare one's current partner with someone 'better'... and sooner or later, over the course of a relationship, those attitudes will definitely become apparent.
It's been my unfortunate experience in romantic life to encounter individuals like this... they often talked about what a great love they had with someone meeting their stringent requirements (me in those instances). But I mostly found that they lacked the ability to truly love themselves and humankind in general - sadly, they can't forgive, nor compromise, nor show empathy - IMO the only requirements worth a damn to be a great lover and partner.
My friend, I'm sure there are plenty of good hearted down to earth Women in New Jersey.
Heck, they don't even dress in a dress/skirt like a Woman should IMO never mind a Lady when that was normal everyday back in the day.
Today they want to wear the pants IMO. Today's version is no longer a wholesome one.
Where's the respect for most females bodies when so many expose too much of their body in the Summer months? In that case why not go naked and finish the job? It sends a wrong message then those same females screw the Man as well as attracting the wrong ones then cry and create drama which they asked and live for. Heck they sleep around so much that solely for the STD's threat alone will push me away and it's roughly something like 80% of the females sleeping with 30 - 35% of the Men I've read in articles - so what does that say?
So you are a suit and tie all the time type guy???
And who are the NJ women getting the STDs from???? Men
BUT - reading their responses they are going into each relationship with preconceived notions of what is going to happen and that all women are the same.
Judging by their remarks, they are bringing it on themselves.
And yes, I know all too well about divorce - I worked in child support enforcement for some time years ago before I worked in the prisons, so I also know about the poor men getting burned. I ate, breathed, and slept divorce for longer than I wanted to. Many times, the men do get burned, however, equally, many times they do not - MEANING that equally, the divorces are the mens' fault the same amount as they are the women's.
Honestly, out of all the inmates I dealt with in the prisons that were in on sex crimes, one was truly innocent. ONE out of how many over a ten year period??
You two guys have really got to stop thinking that all women are the same. Just like you guys aren't all the same either. THANK GOD!!
Dude- stay away from bars and one night stands and you won't have much worry of STDs.
There are some bitter people out there, wow. If you drink for entertainment you already have one strike.
Bring on a little ethnic self loathing next- and we'll have a good ole city-data reunion shindig.
Example: I hate fill in the blank persons and I happen to be blank background too. I hate myself and my fill in the blankness but hopefully one day it will just vanish and everything will be fabulous.
It's okay, it's all part of living in Femerica.
I just hear stories from the many people I've spoke to and the kicker is that many females still want to justify that Marriage IS the thing to do - no thanks.
Not all women are marriage minded- especially if they have been burned.
But I noticed the term Femerica on that post. Hmm, maybe time for some insight form the unpolitically correct. It's pretty insightful and many laughs.
This feeds two things: their obsession to shop, and the avoidance of anything that compromises their comfort. By throwing out what you work endlessly to provide, they get to put on the lies, and go buy more disposable crap. There are some guys I know who are some of the fortunate few who have found a truly good woman, who doesn't live her life in a state of terminal self-centered-ness. I always tell them to be truly grateful. I guess I'm describing a southern girl, but they don't like Yankees. And mail-order brides are out of the question,
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so I'm probably going to remain single..
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One thing from Sopranos isn't so steriotypical, and that's how the wives on that show are butt-spoiled. Man my stepmother pays a guy to spring clean the house every month, has to own a fullsize lex, live in a big house, not work, etc and she pays for none of it so they quickly forget the value of a dollar so long as u are taking care of everything. They get this phobia or cancer which permenently criples them from being reasonable with money and worldly things that make them comfortable. Of course this only applies to a certain class of women but they dominate, maybe the new generation knows the value of money.
If u think ur gonna remain single, chances are u will, u have to change ur attitude, women need to feel very wanted and know ur about business (ironic i use that word). Do u want a woman or not? if so might as well adopt the conquer the world f*** off attitude as opposed to the ***sy attitude
One thing from Sopranos isn't so steriotypical, and that's how the wives on that show are butt-spoiled. Man my stepmother pays a guy to spring clean the house every month, has to own a fullsize lex, live in a big house, not work, etc and she pays for none of it so they quickly forget the value of a dollar so long as u are taking care of everything. They get this phobia or cancer which permenently criples them from being reasonable with money and worldly things that make them comfortable. Of course this only applies to a certain class of women but they dominate, maybe the new generation knows the value of money.
If u think ur gonna remain single, chances are u will, u have to change ur attitude, women need to feel very wanted and know ur about business (ironic i use that word). Do u want a woman or not? if so might as well adopt the conquer the world f*** off attitude as opposed to the ***sy attitude
Once again, the whole Sopranos thing was a joke...the show makes many references to real aspects of New Jersey. As far as the main characters are concerned, I'm sure most realize that they don't live the life that the overwhelming majority of people from New Jersey do.
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