Stay away from McClellan's in Beacon-I placed my Mom there-it's basically all dementia patients. They don't tell you that when you visit the place. She left in less than a month there. She was treated like she didn't have any smarts at all-Mom maybe almost 86, but has all her faculties.
The Fountains in Millbrook are beautiful-but pricey. Very impressed with everything we saw there. I wanted to check in-it was a cruise ship without the boat!
The Fountains at Millbrook
There's the Avalon in Wappingers by the airport-nice, but no real outside place the residents can go.
The newest one is in Highland. Much different than anything that's been here before-more like what my relatives live in Virginia.
Woodland Pond at New Paltz
Now if her Mom is fairly independant and gets about fairly well, there's the Manor at Woodside. My Mom was there for a bit-while we were retrofitting her house after she broke her hip. Most residents have private aides that come in and help-others are totally sufficient. Plenty of activities, shuttle bus to shopping, theater and Dr appointments.
The Manor at Woodside Retirement - Independent Senior Community in Poughkeepsie New York,Hudson Valley
Good luck, it's hard to find good ones. I spent weeks looking at them. I know Arden Hill is still there-but that was too far away for us.