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That's because you didn't actually read it, you just responded to what you wanted to hear.
In Ann's defense, I'll say that just because someone posted on one of your threads, that doesn't mean that person is following you. Personally, half the time, I don't even notice the name on the thread when I click into it. If a headline grabs me, I'll click. If the subject matter interests me, I'll respond.
I'm talking to the people who never seem to respond to my posts topically, but who always show up with the same ad hom's no matter what..."But you work in a bar!" "Is this about your fake ****?" LOL
Babee...another poster asked and I've been wondering....what does your sis think? Does she notice the same thing at family gatherings? Do you notice it after you've been at the event for awhile or does it start the moment you arrive? I'm not sure the answers will help me discern what their problems are but I'm curious...
My family has a way of saying things that end up being hurtful...all of a sudden you're thinking "did they just insult me"? Personally, I either call them on it right away, usually with humor OR I walk away. Sometimes people are fairly stinky...whether they try or not.
Are you saying the married sister should receive respect and compliments simply because she is married?
I personally feel if I sleep with married men its none of my families business...
That doesn't give them a right to judge my life.
do you lack reading comprehension or maybe you never read this person's threads before? her sister had 3 kids. is settled down into a family versus the op who has no problem airing how men chase her. do you see her pictures and how she sorta fishes for compliments? if you were my relative and you made it a habit of sleeping with married men then i don't think i could have much respect for you. sorry, there's a word for that.
For this cross section of the CD crowd, fiction is better than fact.
FYI, my family knows nothing about my personal life or hers, and they've seen so little of my boobs they have no idea that I've gotten a boob job.
then maybe she's just nicer than you. if you're saying they know absolutely nothing, not a teensy, tiny iota at all about you or your sister then it's your personality they don't like or whatever vibe you give off. some people don't realize that they give off an aura that other people sense.
Is she perceived as being more insecure? It could be that you may be seen as the one who has it all "together" and they are just trying to make her feel better.
So, uhmmm, I can't think the last time I looked up someone's username on Google but I felt compelled to do it after reading this thread.
To the OP (aside from wanting to poke my eyes out), I believe you have a severe case of low self esteem. I don't know why you may and truly it isn't my business but it just feels, to me, somewhere along the early path of life you decided physical attraction would make you whole.
Believe me, it doesn't and I know it doesn't.
I'm sorry for your situation and, what I perceive, is the pain you are going through. I guess (could be wrong) you feel if you make your outsides look good it will make you feel good inside. I'm here to tell you, that's not how it works. It's what's inside that makes us shine, or not shine.
Regards,
second right
Last edited by second right; 09-26-2012 at 05:00 PM..
Reason: made no sense
It's not the woman's fault if the man abandons his responsibility. I hate when people look down on single mothers.
How about the woman being on reliable birth control and not having any babies by accident? How about only having sex with a man that you've gotten to know well enough that you're sure that he's got decent morals and will support any babies you make together?
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