Why is a 35 year old man friends with an 18 year old girl? (definition, neighborhood)
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Only one reason.....in fact, a guy I work with dumped his wife of 30 years for an 18 year old Korean Import Model. They were "Friends" for almost a year working at the Dealership.
The man is having some sort of mid-life crisis.. the girl either has daddy issues or wants an older man to buy her pretty things.
Okay, that's unfair. They are consenting adults and can do whatever they want - but relationships with such a large age gap rarely prove successful, at least in my experience. Plus, what is this 18 year old doing? College? More than likely. This 35 year old will be working no doubt - they are in completely different life stages with different experiences. To be honest I am struggling to understand what a 35 year old would want with an 18 year old beyond the physical aspect - and I don't know any 18 year olds who would want to date a man (or woman) who is in their 30s.
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Define friendship. Some people can be very close friends. Spend time at each others houses, travel together etc. Other people can be more "friendly acquaintances". That means they will stop and talk when they see each other on the street. Or maybe they have a common interest, say both love tennis, and they may occasionally play together, or even watch a big match together. I have several female friends who are 10-12 years younger than me, who I've been friends with since they were about 20. There has never been any sex, or anything like that between us. We're all middle aged now, and we're still on good terms. These women have always been like younger sisters to me (and I have a sister their age), and I'm like a big brother. I think when the gap is more than 6-7 years, but too small for the older person to be a parent, you can get an older/younger sibling like relationship. In fact, I had a few cases where my age was halfway between a daughter, and her mother, and I became good friends with both of them. I've always preferred female friends. I never could understand the "boys night out" thing. Other than a small handful of close friends that I grew up with, if I was out with guys, it was because we were on the prowl for women. Other than that, I have no use for a bunch of male friends.
They work together or play in the same co-ed team?
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