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Old 09-08-2015, 10:41 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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... And going out of your way to reassure us that you are straight.
With a screen name kittycat?

 
Old 09-08-2015, 10:47 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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I ver been telling this friend of mine that we should get lunch sometime. He's
So, you invited him to lunch; he's probably asking himself the same question....he may think the tabs on you.
 
Old 09-08-2015, 11:07 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Just tell him you love him already then maybe he'll pick up the tab!
 
Old 09-09-2015, 12:47 AM
 
Location: California
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Is it an expensive restaurant? Why would you think your friend would pay your lunch? Is it your birthday? If you can't afford it, perhaps suggest another place. When I go to lunch with my friends I never assume they will pay for me, no matter whose idea it was to go to lunch. We may take turns picking up the tab if it's a semi regular thing, but most adults know unless it's a romantic date, you are probably paying your own way.
 
Old 09-09-2015, 04:55 AM
 
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Standing rule amongst all my friends when we go out to dinner- whoever touches their cell phone first while at the table picks up the tab. No one touches their phone, then it's Dutch treat.
 
Old 09-09-2015, 05:06 AM
 
Location: City Data Land
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Why would a friend buy you lunch? One you've been pushing to have lunch. Are you a cheapskate? What's with these threads about others paying for your lunch?
That's probably why it took the friend so long to finally agree to have lunch with him; he doesn't want OP to hit him up to pay for both of them
 
Old 09-09-2015, 05:20 AM
 
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I get such a kick out of the "Similar threads" section at the bottom of this type of topic:

"Treated friend for lunch, Friend possibly got food poisoning. My fault?"
 
Old 09-09-2015, 05:30 AM
 
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OP, just assume that you will always be paying for your food when going out to eat with friends.
Right, if I intend to pay from the get-go I say, "I'll take to you to lunch at XYZ." And if I don't put that out front you better bring your wallet.

I can't believe that this is a novel approach.
 
Old 09-09-2015, 07:18 AM
 
Location: City of the Angels
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I have always believed that there are no free lunches.
You'll pay somehow !
 
Old 09-09-2015, 07:35 AM
 
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Unless he specifically stated "I will treat you to lunch," it's safest to assume that it's dutch.
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